how can i get a guy to like me?

Question

u know, as in "like, like"

Answer 1

You can't. Be yourself. If they like you, they'll realize this themselves. You can't make people like you, they have to have an inherent desire to like you already.

Answer 2

Most of the time, you have no control over a guy's feelings. You're either his type, or you aren't. If you are- don't worry about it, you'll get closer just by spending time together. If you aren't- well, it sounds hard, but just accept that it wasn't meant to be, and you will both be happier if it just never happens. Such is life.

If you are stubborn about getting this guy: Playful flirting, joking, and teasing will probably at least open the door a little bit. It's crucial that you act calm and natural, regardless of what you are really feeling. Don't stalk him with calls or texts or whatever your style is, but don't play hard to get, either. (WAAAY overrated.)

If that fails, just do what everyone else does- dress like a slut, drop a lot of pencils, make lots of body contact, etc. Yeah, its degrading to you and women and all that crap, but if you're really that desperate, then you can't be degraded much farther anyway.

Answer 3

you reallycan not make a guy like you. Just be yourself. You know women can ask guys out too. If that fails just be happy being single, flirty, and fun. I am married and really do miss starring at cute guys flirting and just being wild. If you really like this guy. Dress up a little, not too much make up and find out what he is interested in and try it out. trying new things like sports, dancing, etc. is hot to guys.

Answer 4

be urself


i----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Aaron ♥ Heather
Date: Jan 24, 2007 8:24 PM
i love you soooo much im so happy were together you dont know how lucky i am to have someone pretty like you and actually has a personality.

that was from my bf. wait for a guy that is nice and sweet, then some dirt bag who just wants u for other things...

-hetty♥

Answer 5

Flirt

Answer 6

Let him know you like him. Don't be overbearing, though. Don't follow him around or take every single opportunity to talk to him...if he's ambivalent that's just going to be creepy.

Also grabbing his *** out of the blue could backfire. (Just ask the chick who almost got my maglite in her face in high school)

You're not going to be able to make anyone like you and keep him liking you, if they wouldn't like you as you are. Just, if you want the ice broken, either break it yourself or make it easy for him to break it.

Answer 7

Be simple, be comfortable, dont change yourself for anybody else. Be Wise and do good to all. Show your wits around. You will get a good sensible guy for sure.

Answer 8

JUST be your self and go a bit light on the flurting ok dont go to pushy like you want to get it on ok , he might get the wrong idea and not like you for you , good luck

Answer 9

this works:
first talk to him, get friendly, share your hobbies, try spending time with him. then start cutting off. just limit yourself to 'hallo' and 'hi'. if he has a crush too on you then he'll definately try to enquire about your this 'wierd' behaviour. just don't let him know, that you like him. if you'll run after him he'll start avoiding you. good luck:-)

Answer 10

don't get offended but American guys like girls very slim,pretty,intelligent, fun,outgoing and spontaneous i am non of that. But you have to be careful you don't attract the wrong guys, it can be dangerous.

Answer 11

be urslf. Say hi and move up the conversation from there. Smile. i guess, i kinda have the same problem but thats almost all i know