Being human means having some kind of imperfections within us. And it is NOT wrong or bad to be imperfect, it is actually how things are. Rather than wanting others to accept your imperfections, first of all, you should be accepting of yourself. Accept, love & respect yourself. tell yourself everyday that you love yourself exactly the way you are. You seem to be seeking attention or acceptance from others. even in the form of pain or hurt. You are afraid of being dejected and you are feeling as you have been doomed. Try to come out of this depression & this feeling, love yourself & then, others will love you.
2007-01-24 17:12:45
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answered by publically_private 3
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You hate other people because you hate yourself. You enjoy causing yourself pain, because you believe that you are 'bad' and should suffer, and because when you are doing this, the physical 'pain' blocks the emotional 'pain' . You like causing other people pain, because other people have caused you so much pain that you believe that they need to suffer, so when you hurt other people, you invoke their image, and you punish them. As for the blood, I have no idea, but I do know that you are not alone in that. There are cults, religions, entire lifestyles based on 'vampirism', and it sounds like you would fit right in there. If you like these qualities in yourself, maybe you should seek them out. But being as it is a little scary, keep it out of your daily life, with an outlet, you should be able to 'get it out of your system'. But if these things overwhelm you, or if the pain goes beyond consensual, then you need to seek out help with someone who can understand what you are going through. Try a suicide hot line, or a therapist.
2007-01-25 00:14:38
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answered by persephone 1
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Its human nature to want to stick together in groups of other people, being alone is an awkward concept for us, but somtimes you just need to take time for yourself. There's nothing wrong with seeking solitude. Pain is a part of life. But dude you sound so emo with the blood thing. Maybe you should seek help.
2007-01-24 23:52:09
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answered by NX-01 3
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Anti Social behavior is not uncommon. I myself have been, and hate stupid people. Liking pain means your a masochist. Liking blood means you Either like your steaks rare, or are a vampire. Just kidding, can't explain that one, sorry. There is nothing wrong with being a loner, and some day, you will find someone like yourself that you want to be around.
2007-01-24 23:02:10
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answered by au197_0 3
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Sometimes people like physical pain (or maybe blood) because it makes them feel alive when the pain of life makes them numb.You sound resentful. Perhaps you've been hurt too deeply by other people, or not felt loved enough?
2007-01-24 23:04:00
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answered by Emz 3
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I think it is human natual to feel that way(pain,love)but what
makes us differnet is that we have a control over us in which
can be affected by your feeling. If i'm correct you sounds like
an emotional person?
2007-01-24 23:16:08
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answered by brokenradiosoul 1
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Yin Yang man. We are not good or bad, we do not love or hate. We are not dual. We are everything. Problems arise when we try to fight our spiritual non dualistic essence.
2007-01-24 23:01:00
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answered by Immortal Cordova 6
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We didn't have your experiences, we're not in your skin or in your head. How can you expect anyone to be better able to answer your questions than you yourself?
2007-01-24 23:59:55
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answered by Philo 7
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you are a stirred soul...you want a purpose...you want belongling...do not seek...improove your INNER self...do not look to outside...and naturally. you will reach peace and balance. You will come to not dislike others...and feel comfortable because you are comfortable with yourself.
2007-01-24 23:32:36
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answered by zack u 1
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