last monday, my married mans wife found out about us. she banned me to talk to them and to forgive about them. Well my married man still wants to meet me and do stuff with me.. i am very confused so I dont know what to do. What should i Do?
2007-01-24 14:41:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
his son is 20 and his daughter is 18 and the daughter has a mind of a 6 year old and the son has problems....
2007-01-24 14:42:41 · update #1
I am 20 year's old and my married man is 54 years old... him and his wife has been married since 1985 and his wife and him are 11 years apart. this is the first marriage for the wife and the 2nd for my married man
2007-01-24 14:43:53 · update #2
my married man ask me to marry him b4 but i said we'll see.... what to do????
this has been going on since the summer of 2005 but i been having sex with him since september 3, 2005!
2007-01-24 14:45:18 · update #3
http://journals.aol.com/knc1234/Knc1234 u can read Wednesday, January 24, 2007 b/c it has a lot of details in it!
2007-01-24 14:46:15 · update #4
And his daughter caught us having sex once!
I been wanting to leave him for the pass 3 months but i still love him and i dont want to lose him but by june 2007 if i dont like where i am or how things are going... i am going to move to DC and start my life over again....
What should I do?
2007-01-24 14:48:28 · update #5
his wife is in denial and she think i am lying..... but i have proof of it
2007-01-24 14:49:21 · update #6
I don't know what to do.... !!!!!!!!!
my married man gave me a ring and asked me to marry him and patted my tummy and has been acting really REALLY nice 2 me... we got out to places and stuff and my married man wants to marry me but i said we'll see
2007-01-24 14:51:16 · update #7
I don't know what to do.... !!!!!!!!!
my married man gave me a ring and asked me to marry him and patted my tummy and has been acting really REALLY nice 2 me... we got out to places and stuff and my married man wants to marry me but i said we'll see
2007-01-24 14:51:19 · update #8
You have to be thankful to your married mans wife that she forgave you.Now its up to you to show her what kind a person are you,if you are a good person and if there is a bit kindness or humen being in your heart, tell THAT MARRIED MAN to go to hell.move on, find or let someone find you BUT please not a married man.
I just saw all pics and read at AOL your post,NOW what i think is that you have a problem dear ,You are obsessed with him, and playing games so his wife will leave him,As you said on
http://journals.aol.com/knc1234/Knc1234 "" I was just managing this secret relationship on my own just fine. I did not ask my dad or my mom to take care of this for me. "" then why you are asking us if you dont want to listen any one.you are in trouble ,and YOU ARE TROUBLE, get help.....you need it baby admit it.
2007-01-24 14:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Farrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In-love, and sex,are two different aspects. It is apparently that the your man or the man you want don't love his wife. It would be disgracing, but Honorable if he would politely divorce his wife, so she may find someone who really loves her and give her the total devotion and respect. He is bless so far that she have forgave him and you.
You have to start considering how you see yourself? You are aware this man have joined union with another woman from the Blessing from God. Therefore, if you want to keep yourself cheap and unclean before you make any future wedding vows, it is really your adult decision. Also keep in thought that you willingly gave a taste of being the hidden woman, therefore, pray that this situation will not happen to you when you're married. I have excluded the aspects from quoting the Bible, but I think someone who sees your question may fulfill those Biblical passages.
If you love this man, you will do one or two motions. One suggest
that he be obedient and ascertain to his wife or request for him to release the adulteries affair and married you.
I've never been married before, but if do get married may God keep me and my wife clean until his calling!
2007-01-24 15:38:33 · answer #2 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating a married guy 2 1/2 times your age. One who is facing having to leave his second wife if he keeps going with you, and who may have done something similar with his first wife.
If you think ******* around with him for a little while longer is worth tearing apart what's left of his marriage, go right ahead.
If you think you're going to marry/have a life with him...well, he might be too impotent to bother leaving you by the time you lose your youthful good looks. And you will. Are you willing to risk your youth on a guy who's ****** over at least one woman before?
Are you doing this because he's rich? What would that make you?
2007-01-24 14:49:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
OMG! First of all, step AWAY from the married man. He's not yours. You have to find your own. MOST people don't like to share. Who cares what HE says. He's a loser for messing with BOTH of your heads. Get a man closer to your own age where you actually have things in common & your relationship won't be " a dirty, little secret". Life would definately be better without this guy AND his wife.
2007-01-24 14:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you would get involved with a married man anyway, but the fact that he would cheat on his wife shows this man has some serious charactor flaws. Dump him. Don't see him again or speak to him, not only is this hurting his family it is also hurting you. Find someone who is truthful and loves you for you.
2007-01-24 14:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Sara R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. If he was married twice and you are the same age as his kids that is a clue. What if you want to marry him later he will do the same thing he did to one and two. You are just another woman to play around with. He is no good find someone else who deserves you.
2007-01-24 14:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider that this relationship may need to come to an end.
In my opinion, you do not really have the right to be involved with a married man.
You are still young, and have many years ahead of you to make better decisions about your life.
2007-01-24 14:47:00 · answer #7 · answered by Daaang! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is married. He has a family, This has been going on since 2005. I think you need to consider moving on. I don't think he is going anywhere. He wants the best of both worlds.Think about it if he cheats on her he will cheat on you.
2007-01-24 14:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Janst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the guy and move on with your life... Let go of the baggage! Do what you know is right to do... Stay away from him and dont contact or talk with him again... Run dont walk and the sooner the better. You will be better off for it!
2007-01-24 14:50:42 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that if I were his wife you wouldn't be here asking this. DUMP HIM. He has a kid your age! Wht happens if he divorces his second wife, marries you, and then does the same thing with a much younger girl?
2007-01-24 14:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by LeeAnn Lee 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋