question #1....okk well my friend is moving to another state and her last day of skool will be in about 2 weeks and well..im kinda not sad thats she is moving..i mean im sad im gonna lose a friend but i not so sad to cry...wat should i do??
question #2....the friend i was just talking about is having a party next week...and i already know wat im buying her...and i wanna get her something for a goodbye present wat should i get her??
pleaseee answer both questions...dont just answer one and then say u dont know for the other one.
THANK YOU SOO MUCH SOO SOOOOOOO MUCH!!!
2007-01-24 13:59:42 · 12 answers · asked by name. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, I'm not sure why you feel you need to do something about not feeling sad enough to cry. You don't mention whether you are a close friend with her or not. If you're not so sad, then you're not and what COULD you do? Maybe you'll feel sad enough to conjure up some tears when you say goodbye.
Secondly, a great goodbye gift would be a picture frame with a collage of all your shared friends, and maybe an autograph book with messages from all those friends.
Good luck.
2007-01-24 14:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to be sad to the point of tears to truly be sad. My guess for your reason of not really being sad, is that the two of you didnt have a really strong friendship. Dont feel bad. The sadness will come when shes gone.
You should get her something that involves friendship, so she always knows she has friends with her. Id get her a friendship charm or a best friend necklace or something.
2007-01-24 22:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, isnt that better? of course you cant still feel that you are sad at first because you know she is still there but you can see that from time to time you will miss her and sure you'll get sad..of course it's normal...but she wont be that long ryt? i mean she can still come back.
well you can give her something memorable...like the nyt she'll be having the flight you acan talk to each other how good the days you have spent together..or just simply a warm hug that is so precious...
.:you never know what you've got till its gone girl..so better value her till you lose her..;;.
2007-01-24 22:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) it doesn't matter if u dnt cry it mite happen at last time u's c each other if not u no ur sad about and just try to have fun with her y u cn
2) y dnt u's go out to a mall or sumthin go into 1 of those photoboth things get a couple of picture's to remind u both of the last time u's hanged out , i like the CD idea to
2007-01-24 22:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by bustinbuster 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try to spend as much time with your friend as you can over the next couple of weeks. tell them how much you appreciated having them as a friend. if you can, get her address, and phone number so you can stay in touch. just because they are moving away doesn't mean that your friendship has to end. it is ok not to be sad enough to cry. people deal with different things in different ways.
for your second question. get your friend something that they like that would remind them of you kind of as a token of your relationship. doesn't have to be expensive just something from the heart. gifts from the heart are priceless and last a lifetime.
i'll give you an example of something i did since i was in a similar situation as you. my friend who i had known for six years stopped going to a summer camp that i volunteered at because they weren't able to anymore. over these six years we developed such a great relationship that before he left, i made a photo album of him, me and all of his friends all throughout the six years we were there. he loved it. see it doesn't have to be big just something from the heart. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-01-24 22:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1 you don't have to cry if a friend is leaving...its sad but crying is not always a sad mechanism...don't worry about not crying, you're not obliged to do that
#2 a good gift is a framed picture of you and the friend and if you want to keep in touch maybe get her a stationary set to write letters instead of email
2007-01-24 22:05:12 · answer #6 · answered by dearfriend44 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to be reduced to tears to know your going to miss your friend, just enjoy the time you have left and make the best of it.
one idea for a present is why not get her something that will always remind her of some of the fun times you had together. maybe even like a collage of pictures.
2007-01-24 22:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should like get a giftcard for ur friend thats leaving and get her some food or something!For ur friend at da partay,get her some lotion from bath and body works and make her a party card(notice i did no say b day)
2007-01-24 22:04:34 · answer #8 · answered by Deanna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In answer to qstn 1 - it's not a big deal if you're not crying over her.
For qstn 2, you already know what you're buying her, so why are you asking? Why not make her a CD you know she'll love?
2007-01-24 22:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by LSD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1) well........maybe you might not feel her for a friend but deep inside you want 2 be her friend but its like u cant!! 2) well if your going to her paty enjoy.....and just be nice to her.....and just tell hr im sorry that your moving and i will miss u......casue you were a great friend and then give her a firend hug!!! : )
2007-01-24 22:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Diamond J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋