I don't know why but when me and my girlfriend talk about s.e.x play i get nervous and try to change the subject. (we been going out for 3 years) and she is the world to me but i get nervous for no reason.. Is it ok for 15 year olds to have s.e.x play with there love one? Nothing like trying to make a kid just like her giving me a H.J or a B.J?? My parents didn't say that we could have s.e.x play just s.e.x???? is it the same and is it ok for me to be nervous? ( i am normal size)
2007-01-24 13:48:19 · 10 answers · asked by jk456lol 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
NO they didn't give promission... they said no s.e.x so really its not sex it s.e.x play... so it doesn't really count as s.e.x right??
2007-01-24 14:16:38 · update #1
Don't worry, perfectly natural. If you don't want to do it, fine. Abstinence is cool.
But so is mutual masturbation. She won't get pregnant, neither of you will get STDs, and much stress will be relieved.
Just don't 'do the deed' until you're at least out of high school.
2007-01-24 13:57:36 · answer #1 · answered by mabster60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I may be wrong, it sounds like she may have more experience (which is not a judgment) there are lots of possibilities out there. Communication is important, but it is more important to not go past the line you draw for yourself because you can not undo what may have happened. Fantasies can be addictive but they can also keep upping the stakes so it is harder to get the desired high of sex as time goes on. Innocence is preferred.
2007-01-24 15:02:30 · answer #2 · answered by Keko 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your relationship is between you and your partner. There isn't a rule book with regards to when to take things further.
If it feels right, and you both want to, with regards to anything, then why not ?
Rather than asking people/parents, try experimentation to learn yourselves. Everyone learns through a few mistakes.
2007-01-24 14:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by andijustmetyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, no matter your situation, always wear a condom if you do have sex. Maybe a oral sex at age 15 is O.K. But just make sure you have a condom. I would hate for another person to be H.I.V. Positive.
2007-01-24 15:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by GO BENGALS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex play is a normal desire. As long as you are careful, there should be no need to worry about pregnancy either - just use protection.
2007-01-24 15:29:07 · answer #5 · answered by Jared L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying, at your age, it should come naturally, use protection or pay the child support later.
2007-01-24 14:25:04 · answer #6 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just watch out man, you don't want to get aids and die 0_0
2007-01-24 14:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by the_colz 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Any contact with the other person's genitals is sexual. You're playing with words; & with fire.
Please; please understand what you're doing before you do it.
Being nervous is totally normal.
2007-01-24 14:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you parents gave you premission they r nuts
2007-01-24 14:01:16 · answer #9 · answered by nicu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its okay to be nervous.....
WOW! three years already!!! congrats!!
2007-01-24 14:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋