well right now i'm starting yr9 at about next week. in yr8 my really close friends told me that they were moving to different schools. i was really sad. but i still had on good friend left that i could hang out withh. but then today she just old me that she got a call and that she was moving schools aswell. so i feel that i've got noone left now and that everyones gone.
i still have friends at my school but i dont exactly trust them or its just not the same with my other friends, and i know i'll feel insecurre when i'm with them too. there's also not many people left to be friends with now because they all seem to be mean people.
please give me some advice :) thanks
2007-01-24 13:47:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sometimes it feels like I can't take it another minute... but then, I take it cause that's what life is. You don't have a choice. The good news is that now that you're friendless, you'll make new friends. It's never as bad as we can imagine it. When I transferred to junior high from elem., none of my old friends were in my homeroom..I meet new people that were much more fun than my old ones. We stuck together all through high school. Then college, another group of friends. Then work, another group, then after work, more.
So all of this crisis is really just good practice for the rest of your life. You'll do fine. I can tell because you're honest about your feelings and not afraid to ask for help. Good Job!
2007-01-24 14:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by charlie at the lake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really stinks about your friends moving away. as hard as it may seem you need to find other friends. maybe not as many as you had before but even a couple of them would work. if you feel like you cannot trust someone then you shouldn't be friends with that person. there are good people out there you just have to look for them. i know how you feel. i have lost a few good friends in my life as well. most as a result of moving away. in my high school there wasn't anybody i could trust either but then i got involved in afterschool activities like bowling, students against drunk driving and so on. i met a lot of nice people there so my loss of my previous friends though i still missed them didn't seem so bad because i had new friends. if you have afterschool activities at your school start doing some. it may help you as well. if you don't then just sit back and observe people. you can usually tell who are good people and who are not. choose your friends. do not let your friends choose you. i have come to understand that everything happens for a reason. you just have to take life one day at a time and there is always a door that opens when one closes if a person looks hard enough. hope this helps and good luck in the future.
2007-01-24 22:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have friends that you dont trust, then i wouldnt consider them friends. Dont worry about what will happen. Before this year started, my 2 best friends told me they were moving away-one to Connecticut and one to Jackson County. I was so upset, cause i thought i was gonna be on my own now. I met new people, and although i always thought those people were weird, they were REALLY nice, and now one of them is my best friend. Dont underestemate people. I thought the same thing, and i got to meet more people. I realized that although i thought all my friends were gone, they were right here with me this whole time.
2007-01-24 22:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋