iv been dating this really great guy for almost 5 months and valentines is coming up,... what should I get him?
2007-01-24 13:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by Skittles 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
At five months, it's probably okay to get a little more personal. It's also a good point in the relationship to commemorate a previously shared moment or date from your past 5 months.
For example, my good friend's first date with her guy WAS on Valentine's Day (two years ago now). They went out for lobster, which he'd never had before, but he let her choose and complied with her choice. He liked it okay in the end, but it was all still quite an experience with the bib, the tongs, and picking the LIVE lobsters before they were seated (she warned him not to name it...).
Anyway, the following summer was his b-day, so she got him a plush lobster. A few months later, on HER birthday, he got the lobster a carrier and brought it over to her apartment. After a year, the joke has expanded to where the stuffed lobster (now named "Larry") lives as good as any living pet!
Shared experiences, inside jokes, nicknames and so on are great themes from which to draw a gift, and then draw closer to your guy.
2007-01-24 14:06:53 · answer #1 · answered by Logiatrix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. A lunch date with YOU!
You pay for the lunch - perhaps on a Saturday afternoon.
Make him a card - ok, you may cheat by going to the card section of the store and get great ideas. Guys don't admit it but they never get "handmade" cards - just for them.
Now if you have any money left over (because you might get a new dress for this occasion), get him a small present - yes very small - like candy - you know those little hearts with those "sayings" on them like 'kiss me', etc.
Ask him to dress up - and take him to a nice restaurant but make sure it's a place where the two of you will be comfortable.
Now - for you - Show up wearing that spectacular dress that you look - so great, fine and awesome in.
Wear those stockings, nice jewlery, nice earrrings, and great perfume (if you can get pheromone - which has a different scent on everyone).
Do your nails and makeup - again you will look so fine!
Don't tell him where you're going - unless he's the kind that has to know.
Send him an electronic email card -
free electronic cards - www.123greetings.com - or other site.
- and write your invitation to the lunch with his special girl
as you personalize this electronic greeting card.
HE WILL REMEMBER THIS FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE.
You will be described as "AMAZING" and be remembered by him "and to his friends as he will brag about what you did for him for the rest of your life. His friends will be jealous if their "girls" don't do anything special.
p.s. - don't ever tell him that the idea came from online, it's just between us girls!
GOD bless us one and all, always.
MBA-Boston Univ.
2007-01-28 07:00:29 · answer #2 · answered by May I help You? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Valentines Day is a corporate "holiday" Mother's Day, Father's Day, etc... It was created by card companies and flower shops.
2007-01-24 13:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bestie 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Port wine and dark chocolate. That's what I'd like to get anyways...
2007-01-24 13:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jeronimo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get yourself some sexy lingerie. Light some candles and make him something to eat. You will be the gift.
2007-01-24 13:46:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
gwet him some chocolate
&/or
a nice fluffy soft teddy bear
2007-01-24 13:45:51 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
a fun time
2007-01-28 04:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by michelle_markwica 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋