I was texting my best friend yesterday, she wanted to know who i like. I told her that i don't want anyone to know right now, and she got sort of mad at me, she said that im not her real friend cuz i cant trust her. I got sort of mad then too, and said some mean stuff to her. Now, she doesn't want to talk to me at all. How can i fix our relathionship??
2007-01-24 13:09:25 · 10 answers · asked by djmisiek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I was texting my best friend yesterday, she wanted to know who i like. I told her that i don't want anyone to know right now, and she got sort of mad at me, she said that im not her real friend cuz i cant trust her. I got sort of mad then too, and said some mean stuff to her. She says she feels sad and empty, and tells me over and over that i have other friends and i shouldnt waste my time on her, or she just ignores me completely. How can i fix our relathionship??
2007-01-24 13:11:44 · update #1
Your friend should respect the fact that just because you are friends does not mean that you have to tell her everything!
Let your friend know that you do trust her, and you are sorry for saying mean things to her. If you value her as a friend let her know that your friendship means a lot to you.
The best way to fix a friendship is to admit when you are wrong, communicate well, and let your friend know that she is important.
Good luck : 0 )
2007-02-01 07:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by autumalena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, its her fault in the first place i am seeing...as she shouldn't press on into other people's privacy, best friend or not. no best friend should ever ask theirf best freinds questions and get mad if they don't get an answer. if they're pressing for an answer, then they don't act like a best friend as they are more into the 'juicy gossip' rather than the 'i care about how you feel' thing.
you should tell her that you feel hurt that she's pressing you out for what she wants to know and using the 'best freinds' relationship in vain. best friends understand each other and will not get mad at each other for the simple issue of because you didn't want to tell her who you fancy...you will tell only when you feel comfortable about saying it not because of trust.
2007-02-01 07:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by ChristopheraX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She did what best friends don't do. She got angry at a decision of yours that had a solid basis. So, if you fix the relationship, you still have a person in your life you can't trust. Are you sure you want that sort of person in your life?
2007-01-24 13:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is a real friend she will understand the reason why you are not ready to tell anyone who you are seeing. Just tell her your not sure if you want to keep seeing this person or not and thats why your not telling anybody who she is, That should get her off your back.
2007-02-01 04:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by jane dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you don't have to tell her about your personal life.
and she didn't do the right thing when she got mad and u didn't
do the right thing when you said mean thing to her.
you can fix this by sending an e-mail telling her in it that you do trust her and when u feel that the right time to talk her about
the one u like she will be the first to know about him/her.
in this way she will understand and she will talk 2 u again.
2007-01-31 09:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the style of factor the place you the two think of you're spectacular. She has different "pals" as you called Claire. bear in mind she is a huge lady and can elect pals for herself. tell her why you have been harm while she did no longer refer to you. confirm you enable her tell her area of the story, and be open minded approximately how she feels. tell her that next time she would not have time to communicate, to aid you comprehend that way you could chat on the telephone or on the spot message. whether you at the instant are not so prepared on Claire bear in mind that it is your associates buddy, and you're able to't p.c.. her pals for her. attempt to furnish Claire yet another risk. If issues do no longer paintings out with you and Claire tell your buddy that she would be in a position of be pals with Claire, yet she basically isn't you style. On days that Claire and your buddy are outstanding out, hand out with yet another buddy. stable luck!
2016-11-27 00:13:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes your friend, not your journal. She doesnt have to know every little thing about your life, and you shouldnt have to tell her. You should tell her that you have some personal things in your life that you dont want anyone to know, and so does she.
2007-01-24 14:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u don't have to tell ppl everything. if u want ppl to know then u will tell them, but tell your friend to forgive u but let them know in a friendly way that some things u rather keep to yourself and it has nothin to do with thier trust (if thats the case).
2007-01-24 13:26:57 · answer #8 · answered by jlmccln87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple if u feel her as a best frnd and also if u loves her just tell her frankly or if u r not loving if it is frndship then u do one thing tell her abt the differance between frndship and love even if she hasnt under stood tell her that u r my sister................
2007-02-01 02:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by srikanthreddy_vnit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isnt a true frend cause she cant let you have your own life separate from her
2007-01-30 12:16:53 · answer #10 · answered by Vikki[Rawhr] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋