My friend is 16. She used to babysit for a 14 year old and his siblings. The 14 year old trys to have sex with her. She tells him no and how inappropriate that is. He will grab her chest and try and kiss her. She tells him no. That is so wrong to have sex with your charges. Well my friend Katie who is having the problem, are friends with his mom. Katies getting her hair done tommorow by his mom and she wants me to go with her so he doesnt harass her. What should she do to stop this problem. She doesn't want to get the mom involved because she would never believe
2007-01-24 13:08:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
what this boy is doing is intruding in on your personal space it is called sexual harasment .okay katie needs to speak with her parents and have a chat let her parents know whats going on first . if you feel in yourself you have the courage to approach the boys parents then do so ..
if not dont place yourself in this uncomfortable situation maybe consider not babysitting him and his siblings and find another job..
2007-01-25 01:04:52 · answer #1 · answered by kerrielee m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just explain to the boy that you don't have sexual feelings towards him and you feel disgusted at his attempts to touch you. Tell him you will tell his mum or your mum if he does it again.
Even if he is hurt by this it's better to get parents involved then risk getting involved with him.
2007-01-25 11:05:09 · answer #2 · answered by Gracie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a button hole camera (i think thats the name of it) and like were a hat with a flower in it and stick it in there and record what he does show it to the mother, but watever u do don't say 'i caught u on tape" cause then he'll ransack your place looking for the footage. ok that my pinion.
2007-01-25 05:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by taytaymm28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His mom would definitely believe it. Tell her. If that doesn't work, take a camcorder.
2007-01-25 03:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋