Have green eyes, long and healthy black trimmed hair. I am the new girl in school. (I am in eighth grade). And I HATE IT! All the girls are SOOOO stuck up, and I don't know how I'm ever going to survive I have 87 left of school and ... I have missed 8 days of school in the first semester. I AM NEVER GOING TO MISS ANOTHER SCHOOL DAY! (Because I feel I missed way to many.) Have I missed too many? Will I be okay?
Anyway, the girls are so mean to me, and always tell me somehting negative or rude towards me everyday. And the guys ONLY talk to the girls they've known for a long time. Baarely talk to me. (Not that I care.) But I HATE MY SCHOOL!
I don't know what to do.
My questions are :
1) What do I DO?
2) Have I missed too many school days? (I WONT MISS ONE MORE DAY)
3). How can I go through the school year?
WHAT DO I DO?
2007-01-24 12:59:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are in a tough position because that's how people often are in eighth grade, they don't know how to include somebody new.
But part of the reason for this is that they feel insecure too; they are afraid you will reject them if they approach you, and afraid that somebody else will reject them too if they approach you. Some of them are actually pretty nice if you can get past that.
I agree, don't miss more school. You need your education, whether or not you make friends now. And staying home actually keeps you from making friends.
Try to be friendly with somebody and invite her to your house or someplace.
2007-01-24 13:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.Ignore the girls. Theyre either jealous, or they really are just stuck up. Boys are stupid at that age (at all ages, actually), and i would just ignore them.
2.Youve missed quite a bit of days, but if you dont miss any more school days, you should be fine.
3.Go through the school year with your head held high. Always be open to make new friends (popular or not). Make good grades, and try your hardest. Do your best.
Good luck. I promise that all this DRAMA will be gone after high school. Dont worry about all the dumb people youre going to school with.
2007-01-24 22:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, not all the girls can be stuck up. some of them have to be nice, even if theyre not the prettiest most popular people. so just be yourself, and don't expect people to come to you. idealy they would, but just come up to someone and start by warmly saying hi. when u get to know the person a little better, try inviting them over for pizza.
2007-01-24 21:10:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋