ive kinda been goin with this girl that i really like, things are working great, and it's probably the best relationship i've ever been in.
i've introduced her to my friends (who already knew her) and in private they told me she used to be a ho, meaning that she used to mess with a lot of guys
what do you think i should do?
PS: she never told me anything like that, and im in high school
2007-01-24 12:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she might have told you that because she really likes you and she wants to let you know about herself, even her past. she might see you as a change for her, in the way that you could make her better and that she wants you to be the only one for her. best of luck <3.
2007-01-24 13:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by elaina jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing, guys (especially in high school) tend to start rumors about a girl because 1) it's true, 2) they couldn't get anywhere with her, or 3) just because they can. And usually it's the 2nd option. So I wouldn't put a whole lot of worry into that if she's not mentioned anything.
If it's still nagging at you though, you should just talk to her about it. Be honest but not accusing. Tell her that you just want to know.
2007-01-24 21:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by gigagiggle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Bro, I don't know.
If she was a ho, that's low.
Do you know if she did Joe?
Maybe even Moe?
Still you don't know.
You can't believe everything you hear.
See for yourself when she is near.
Is she lookin' at other guys,
Or really into you as time flys?
Give her a chance but be alert
Maybe your friends are right
and you will catch her with someone else
in the middle of the night.
Time will tell.
2007-01-24 21:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by Weasel Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys talk about girls like that all the time. If she is making you happy and is being true to you then ignore your friends. Or better yet stand up for her!
Why let go of a good thing because of other people's opinions?
2007-01-24 21:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it really bothers you, try to ask her how many boys she's been with (without being too obvious) and decide from there. But hey, if you feels that this is a great relationship, just enjoy it. Don't worry about what other people think.
2007-01-25 09:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by ranselbiru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friends are jealous. Say nothing, and continue this "great" relationship.
2007-01-24 21:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys think girls are hoes. They could have been with one guy and they are a hoe. These guys seem like they are jealous of you. How many girls have you been with? And are you just worried about what they think?
2007-01-24 21:20:14 · answer #7 · answered by KAB128 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you were, does not reflect what you are now..Just ask her about it.
2007-01-24 21:20:34 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋