I am having the worst week! Me and my bf of 2 years broke up in November bc he didnt have a job, he used all my money, and he on drugs. So we broke up, I was tired of it. Well, I was going crazy without him. He was doing a lot better. He got a job, he quit his drup habbit and he doesn't ask me for money anymore. So we got back together at christmas. We were doing great so I thought. He told me he wanted to get married (not engaged). He was going to take me out for my this weekend and cancelled on monday. Well I saw him last night and he told me he doesnt have the same feeling for me and he is started talking to someone else. Well I went to his work today because I had to pick something up from him and I freaked out on him. He got mad at me bc i think i got him in trouble. But when he got done lunch and after i cried and screamed he said ok we will work it out. But I dont know if I should after everything. But it so hard to just move on. I am happy with him. Am I wrong about this? Help!
2007-01-24 12:29:58 · 3 answers · asked by KAB128 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The whole drug situation and the unstable decisions are an issue that could destroy you in the future. When you think of being with him add the drugs to the factor. The situation that he is providing you is feeding your immediate psychological appetite. The future is what you see now extended and aged. If you can risk an unstable future, go with what you feel. Only you know what it is that you want to do. We can only provide that you are looking at your future, you need to make that decision.
Ask what you can live with and analyze it by laying out a plan including the “what ifs.”
What if he does not get a position and or looses his job? What if he get caught with drugs and I am in the house or car to be searched? Ask yourself some question, are you willing to go to jail for his actions?
Thank you.
2007-01-24 12:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by wanttoknow 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to what he says when you "work it out" if it is satisfactory for you, then I would give him another chance.
Just be careful with the drug thing.
2007-01-24 20:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you happy to be with him but that s not the way it is..move on get you own real life..no ones can help you , only you can change you ownlife.
2007-01-24 21:49:23 · answer #3 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋