When i was sitting one the bench in softball i herd my two coaches talking one said " that girl is related to a famous baseball player" and my other coach siad " really, that is immpossible b/c she stinks." I felt really bad for her so i never told her. it has been 3 years and i still have not told her. i asked my mom and she said it would bring her confidnece down nad i should not sya anything.But todya we were talking and she said if anyone said anything bad a bout her she would want to know. so now it has been on my mind. what should i do and what should i say?
2007-01-24 12:28:24 · 6 answers · asked by ari 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
please heeeeeeeeelp!!!!
2007-01-24 12:30:58 · update #1
sry, the question is my choach said somthing bad about my friene should i tell her?
2007-01-24 12:34:10 · update #2
Honesty, loving, caring, compassion etc. will get you far in the world, hopefully.
2007-01-24 12:38:17 · answer #1 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's been three years now so I'd say let it go. If she does have BO then as a friend you have the obligation to tell her as gently and privately as possible.
It was a stupid comment coming from an adult so that's not a comment on you or your friend but on the maturity of the adult in question. I mean really was the comment productive in anyway? Did it help anyone?
NO it didn't so basically it was a waste of breath on their part so don't waste any more brain cells thinking of it beyond this point.
Good Luck,
Quequegs
2007-01-24 12:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by quequegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is a good pal then tell her. If she's an acquaintance, stay out of it. How would you experience if someone you somewhat knew informed you your husband turned right into a cheat? I hate cheaters too yet I hate getting interested in different peoples drama.
2016-10-16 01:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she asked you for some truth, give it to her. This happened, what, 3 years ago? Your friend has probably improved in softball since then, so I highly doubt it'll matter. Just let her know that you believe in her and that you'd never think that.
2007-01-24 12:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because if you don't she here it from someone else and she might get mad at you because you know
2007-01-24 13:01:46 · answer #5 · answered by shalae w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her,then ask her to help you with your spelling
2007-01-24 12:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋