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ive kinda been goin with this girl that i really like, things are working great, and it's probably the best relationship i've ever been in.
i've introduced her to my friends (who already knew her) and in private they told me she used to be a ho, meaning that she used to mess with a lot of guys

what do you think i should do?

PS: she never told me anything like that

2007-01-24 11:16:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Let the past stay in the past. People change. If she is faithful to you and you are happy, the only thing that should worry you is if she has been screened for stds. Of course this is something that should be discussed prior to having sex for the first time. I would still recommend that you both be tested to make sure you are clean. I don't think it would be helpful to bring this up with her--if she is good to you, appreciate her and accept that everyone has a past.

2007-01-24 11:23:59 · answer #1 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0 0

Talk is cheap, my friend. Do they know she was a ho, or just heard she was? If they know for a fact they apparently messed around with her, too. If you really like this girl continue to see her. Maybe you are the guy she has been looking for. WE all change and grow up. Give her a chance. If she is lying to you that will eventually come out. When you become closer tlk to her and tell her you have heard this and it kind of bothers you. She may have an explanation you have never thought would be the case.

2007-01-24 11:24:12 · answer #2 · answered by mimegamy 6 · 0 0

I think that may be a part of her past. If she has passed that phase of her life then it really shouldn't be an issue.

2007-01-24 12:51:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nic79 1 · 0 0

Ask her about it..if she denies it ,believe her..things will turn up sooner or later if she is lying..

2007-01-24 11:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You make your own opinions and judgements about her. Nobody is perfect - we all make mistakes. Sometimes we actually learn from them, too.

2007-01-24 11:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0 0

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