I'm 18 years old. I'm not trying to brag, but I'm smart. I have all A's, got a 32 on my ACT, and got a full ride to college.
Here's the deal. I've never dated anyone..but I've had my share of crushes, etc.I've just run away from possible relationships in the past.
There is a guy at work that likes me. The only problem is that he's a 17 year old sophomore. He is bipolar (on medication) and he is a foster child. He is different in a lot of ways. He has big plans to go into the Marines. He also is in special education classes.
He has liked me for awhile, and we've talked about the fact that I probably can't go out with him. But, lately, I've become more interested in him. I want to hang out with him. I have even considered going on a date with him.
This is driving me INSANE! Why do I have to be attracted to someone like this?
My question : What would you do if you were me? Would you put aside the differences, or would you break away from the relationship?
2007-01-24 11:14:39 · 18 answers · asked by morethanitseems 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I hope you really take a minute to read this....I don't think you should judge him because he is bipolar...a lot of people are and live normal lives everyday....just to give you a little background so I can prove I know what I'm talking about...my husband who I have been with for 7 years and married for almost 3 is diagnosed bipolar...he is on medication...grew up without a father...and his mother is on the list for a kidney transplant...so he has had a rough life also...not too mention growing up in the rough neighborhoods in Chicago....He is now 3 months from graduating with his bachelor's degree...and takes medication everyday...I wouldn't change him for the world...so please don't be so quick to say no.
2007-01-24 11:26:22 · answer #1 · answered by Em H. 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Take it from me who has a boyfriend thats suicidal and has battled severe depression, its only gonna hurt u in the end. Especially since hes bipolor you never know who you're gonna get the happy boy or the crazy im gonna flip out on you boy. Just run as fast as you can until you get to college.
2007-01-24 11:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by msX 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well the fact that hes a foster child dosnt matter
just worrie that hes bipolar--my best friend also is and she is on meds but still its a roller caster ride sometimes
a yr younger than you--well does that bother you-lots of ppl are doing that so its not that different
special ed---how much? sometimes "special ed" ppl are just like regular ppl and other times its more difficult to have a real relationship with them because of their lack of communication skills (meaning they can barley speack englsih) but also keep in mind that ppl who take speach class to improve their speach are also considered "special ed" at least untill they are finished with it
2007-01-24 11:27:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hmm..I wouldn't ask him out on a date because then if you don't like him, he might be really heart broken because you led him on. However, you should ask for his number so that you guys can talk on the phone and get to know eachother. Good luck :)
2007-01-24 11:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sonya 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would go out with him. You never know what could happen, and if you don't go out with him you will ALWAYS wonder. I would definitely put aside differences, especially considering the fact that you two have already talked about them. You can't help who you like :)
2007-01-24 11:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 2⤋
as long as he stays on the meds for bipolar, "religiously" he will most likely be fine... of course he will have his ups and downs still, but not like when he is off of them...
as far as him being a foster child.... ?
and the Marine thing... well, they won't take him if he is bipolar... trust me on this one...
he may not get great grades like you... but, if you really do like him... give it a couple of dates...
with all this being said... it already sounds like you would kinda be uncomfortable being in a relationship with this dude...
take it for what it's worth.... peace.
2007-01-24 11:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Tearjerker 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
NEVER EVER DO/DATE ANYONE YOU WORK FOR OR WITH. TO THE SIMPLE FACT, I'M ALMOST FORTY AND STILL TO THIS DAY, ABIDE BY THIS RULE OF THUMB. JUST REMAIN FRIENDS IT GOES A LOT FURTHER THAN ANYTHING.
2007-01-24 11:22:04 · answer #7 · answered by HADITDUN 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...maybe you should just try it out. Give it a shot. You never know, things might work out. If it doesn't, then at least you knew, and never wasted time wondering what would have happened...
2007-01-24 11:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You should at least be good friends with him. You can learn a lot from people who are completely different than you!
2007-01-24 11:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by a_r_cool123 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Just go for it worst that can happen is you guys break up atleast you'll have some experience to take with you to college wink wink
2007-01-24 11:23:51 · answer #10 · answered by Roy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋