I have been so ready for a family for about a year or so now. My husband just came around this christmas. So he has taken on the if it happens it was meant to happen way of things. He is aware that I did my first ovulation kit this month. I was supposed to have ovulated this past saturday but no dice. I refuse to buy another kit so I will wait till my next cycle and begin tracking bbt. In the mean time it is all I can think about, Why haven't I ovulated. Why am I the only one that doesnt have a baby. I haven't even been trying that long but I am so impatient with this whole thing. I run to the bathroon and take a test everytime I think I might be preggers and take a test. I would have bet my first born I was pregnant at christmas my period was very late and when it came it was sorry for the gross visual fleshy and painful. I am pretty sure I had an early misscarage. I just have a horrible feeling it will be hard to be come a mommy what do i do to occupy my mind.
2007-01-24 10:29:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Ok I am not a doctor but I can say I know if you stress about it you will change your monthly cycle and your ovulation time. Stress causes a ton of issues in your bodies chemistry so just relax take your husbands attitude and for lack of a better way spice up the sex life if it is not spicey. the more you have the better the chance you get what you want.
2007-01-24 10:37:31 · answer #1 · answered by Mektaruin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been trying for 3 months as well. It is all consuming. I just kinda assumed that it would happen almost instantly, so I waited to start trying (even though i started charting in Aug). Apparently it doesnt work like that. So now Im dwelling on it too. Its hard not to. If you didnt ovulate last month I would suggest telling your doc that and maybe they could help you out or look into that further and see if your wasting you time because of something that could and can get fixed.
Good Luck with everything!
2007-01-24 19:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by frostedbetty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way and then I made the decision to look positively at things. I now think to myself it will happen when it needs to happen. Most of all I am trying to spend my time doing all the things I wont be able to do when i am pregnant and have kids. I spent Sat night with my sisters having to much wine, eating bad food and watching reruns of friends. This weekend we are heading off camping at the very last minute. It has really helped me relax. It is like I am letting my body and mind have fun in the period leading up to pregnancy. I am not sure if it will work for you but it helped me. I hope you fall soon and don't stress out to much.
2007-01-24 19:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by mstressy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has only been a month since you decided to start a family, why not just have fun, enjoy each other and all that nookie! Take the stress out of it an let nature take it's course.
If you are stressed out it can prevent or alter your ovulation times. So just relax for awhile, conceiving isn't a science it is just nature. You can't predict or plan exactly when it will happen so just have fun trying.
2007-01-24 19:10:05 · answer #4 · answered by smedrik 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry....you're not the only one who doesn't have a baby. We've been trying for 4 months now...every time my period comes I feel all let down. Apparently it's normal to take up to a year though. Good luck!
2007-01-24 18:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by SKBC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a hard thing when you really want to become a mom it seems thats all you can think about try reading or anything to get your mind off it try to avoid baby shows and magazines lots of baby dust your way and good luck to you!!!
2007-01-24 18:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by BlessedMommyof3.. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋