How do you get through to a Capricorn Men??? HELP!!!?

Question

In a relationship with one actually (Im a virgo). So cold sometimes, makes me want 2 punch a wall, lol (yeahh me being a virgo..haha).But anyways...should I be a no show for 2 days or such, or WHAT??? Any one had experience with a Cappy men?? Plz help. Thnx in a advance!!!

P.S. Would a Cappy EVER continue a relationship(boyfriend-girlfri... if not interested/in love with the other person???

Answer 1

Yes I dated a cap and he was the worst boyfriend ever! Jealous..stubborn...mean..selfish...do you want me to go on...as far as them being no interested well it depends...if they are not treating you the way you want to be treated then no...cap men when they put their mind on something such as success they put their all into it so that will succeed! So that is a hard one if they would continue it or not! I am thinking not because of their personality! They don't seem to the type to waste their time...

Answer 2

I'm a virgo, silly me, I fell in love with my capricorn roommate.......What I can tell you from experience is that we are an awesome team, but we don't have a physical relationship. Not sure if we ever will, so I know I'll have to move on......The biggest difference is that he has a huge space and doesn't hug. I'm a cuddler, at least in private and this is a major impasse for us. I know he has feelings for me, even Loves me, just not the same kind as I have for him. If your capricorn seems soooo cold, it may not be what he directs at you, but more what you are lacking from him. My answer is "yes" he can be in a relationship with you and not Love you in the same way you Love him. He may even Love you, but again maybe not the same level you Love him. If you're an awesome team, then respect that and value his freindship. If he does Love you, then it won't hurt to tell him you need a little more. Capricorns Love to be Needed. There is a great site that you can a free compatability for the two of you if you know your birth times, it's at www.astro.com Good Luck.

Answer 3

Am assuming this is not a husband and wife teem yet, or is it?
Ok, you want to get through to a Capricorn man, do you?
Be who you are: organized, organized and willing to do whatever it takes to make his career soar. He's really so practical and responsible that he can hardly think in softer female terms. His career and his status in the community and his being able to provide for his family (very important--family is) not just some average income but wants to give you only the BEST. Caps want what's on the tippy top of the mountain, to be well-thought of in his home in his job/profession to be respected completely for what he's been able to achieve. He's very achievement orientated. You can help him so much. I know it sounds mundane, but if this is a husband and wife team, just your keeping a nice tidy place for him to come home to is a blessing to him.
Also try appealing to his sense of humor! Yeah, I know you don't think there is much of one there, huh. It's there and he's actually quite funny. Laugh at his attempts to joke (it doesn't always come easy for him), praise him to high heaven, write him sweet lovenotes tucked in his pants pockets before he leaves for work just to remind him of you.
And yes, they can _appear_ cold. This is the sign of heavy responsibility and an overpowering need to prove himself and achieve big things. It's a corporate sign even if he's shoveling sh*t now, he won't be all his life.
You can either ride the lift to the top of the mountain by being his willing help-mate or make sure you're not standing in his way on his way up.
I think you just haven't found the right way to express to each other what wonderful qualities each of you believes the other has.
Sit him down occasionally for a nice talk and remind him that despite his need to succeed and despite your understanding that he's got a lot on his plate, you and his family also need his time and attention and occasional laughter from him as well. [Don't Sweat the Small Stuff=book]
If you're lucky, you'll see him adopt the changes you need to feel better about being in relationship with him.
If need be, take up Karate and get some of that anxst out while he's at work.
Hope this helps. You two _are_ compatible; you just need to find ways to show it more.
Insofar as him staying in a relationship if . . . my experience has shown that if he's really not into you for whatever reason(s), he is quite able to quit the relationship and not look back. DON'T try the absentee no-show though; he really needs your support and loyalty. Remember, he's being true to who "he is" when he strives to reach that mountaintop. You might enjoy the view, too.
He's obviously at the very least in "like" with you for who you are and the positives he sees in you. From a Capricorn being in "like" with someone is tantamount to being in love with.
All Best

Answer 4

Gentle persuasion - feminine whiles!