Is she a friend on not???

Question

I have been best friends with this girl for 10+ years. One day I got really sick to a point where I could not walk. I was hospitalize for almost three weeks. She never came to see me but she called me when I was in the hospital, she told me my phone bill was due. It has been alot of stuff going on as far as she has always been jealous me. She was trying to be like me, Reminds u of the movie SWF. She talked behind my back in jealousy its so much to this story it is unbelivable. This time I just got fed up and I ended our friendship. While I was still in the hospital she cut my phone off. So tell me was I wrong. ONLY POSITIVE ANSWERS ONLY PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! p.s. she had the money to cover me until I came out out of the hospital.

Answer 1

Hey how u doing i hope your good anyways she ain't your friend because friends would be there for u no matter what and they wont talk behind your back u know there's a saying that says " there is no friends in this world they will all turn your back on u friends are like guys they just come and go" well i think that the only friends they are in this world is your family and that's it a lot of people think I'm stupid but when u get to the point u realize it that the only people that were there for u was your family!!

Answer 2

Did you consider her a friend before your fight?What makes it any different then than now.I'm not going to say that she's not a friend but i'm not gonna say she is.I have a friend like yours well your Ex-bestfriend she talked behind my back so I talked behind hers was this wrong of me yes it was really wrong of me.I'm not encouraging you to do the same as I did because it makes it so much worse than it already is.Yes i'm still friends with this girl because I'm not ending a friendship just because of a stupid arguement.If I were you I would do what my heart told me to which if this were my heart were talking about I would call her up and apoligize this may sound stupid if you didn't do anything but it helps because i'm not the kind of person who holds a grudge and neither is my friend.So if you take my advice I hope it works for you like it did me.Oh and by the way sorry you were in the hospital I was to for a week.Wasn't fun at all it was quite unexpected because I went a week and a half with strep took my medicine and it did not work so I went back and they told me I needed to go to the hospital and found out I had Mononucleoses and if I did not come I wouldn't have been able to breathe at night.Well I hope your much better now.Good luck with your friend

Answer 3

anyone thats talks about you behind your back is not a friend. If the only reason she called was to tell your phone bill was due, that is not a friend. And if she cut it off while you were in the hospital when she had the $ to cover you, you do not need to be asking this question. you already know the girl is not your friend.

Answer 4

With friends like this, who needs enemies? This girl is not/was not your true friend if she couldn't even take the time to visit you while you were hospitalized. The least she could have done, was paid your phone bill, so you wouldn't be without a phone once you were released from the hospital. You were wise to end the friendship, but in my opinion, there was no friendship where she was concerned. Friends don't treat friends that way. In the future, be choosy when it comes to picking your friends.

Answer 5

First off, sorry you were hospitalized, hope everything is alright now. She didn't have the decency to visit you in the hospital, its obvious there isn't much friendship going on there.That's just sheer stupidity on her part. It seems a little shallow to call someone while sick and tell them any bills are due. She could of called your phone companies billing department and explained your current situation. Honestly i know you ended the friendship in a semi-brutal way, but you did the right thing.

Answer 6

I think that you were right to end the friendship. I f you were hospitalized and she was capable of coming to see you and didnt, then only called you to complain about the phone bill..then shee sounds like a very self involved person, and that she doesnt really care about you or your well being very much. And as for the copycat thing (SWF) Yikes! Thats a red flag too. They say imitation is a big form of flattery, but it can be dangerous too, and it could ruin your life, if shes trying to sabatoge your life and take it as her own..friends, job, style...then you should cut her out of your life pronto before she goes furthur and it gets worse..

Answer 7

HMM. Ok, No she is not your friend. I would'nt waste anymore time on her. Oh yeah and as for MR. JOE normally I wouln't waste my time with such a moron however - I just want to let him know that all he did was prove that red-necks really need to stop sneaking into their sisters bedrooms. I think you really need a better class of friends. Knowing someone for more than 10 years doesn't mean you have to put up with their crap. My child hood best friend and I just started speaking again. I dropped her for about 3 years because I didn't like the way she was treating me. Maybe your "friend" needs some time alone to realise what shes losing.

Answer 8

the answer you now it already. NO. Friends don't do that. And a question, if you knew she was jealous of you before why did you kept the friendship? Just for your newer friends, friends are loyal, they're suppose to be there for when you need them most, and not be jealous of you never,

Answer 9

Friends just don't do that friends. Friends support each other, and do not stab their friend in the back. When I was in the hospital my bf came and visited me. We weren't even close at that time, but she still came when she found out. That's a friend.

Answer 10

I think she is a good friend to stick by you and tell you that your phone bill is overdue but a really good friend does come and visit you even when you are sick .