my best friend online died recently at too young an age - and it has devasted me - i am exhausted with the stress of it and have cried more than once
the emotional ups and downs are getting to me even though i am talking to other friends that knew her and ppl around me
2007-01-24 10:22:44 · 14 answers · asked by olivier1uk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have recently coped with the death of two people, both friends and they were at a young age, one was murdered and one died in her sleep. Both extremely sad.
However, both families have set up websites as a way to deal with some of the grief. You can light candles, write condolences, upload pictures. Put their favourite music on, all sorts. I think it is a lovely way to remember who that person was and read others peoples memories of them.
The website is called gonetoosoon. Perhaps you could forward this to their family and help them get it set up, it might give you something positive to focus on and it may help to heal you a little.
2007-01-24 20:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by peachy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
www.talktoacounsellors.co.uk
Has a great page on how to deal with bereavement.
I have lost so many dear friends over the years so i know what u must be feeling.
But remember that you are not alone in your grief and what your feeling is not unusual. There are counsellors there to help you if you feel you cannot talk to family or friends.
Everybody may deal with bereavement differently but whatever you do do not bottle it up.
Your friend would not want you sad. Talk about her, the good times the bad etc. Keep her spirit alive.
Check out the website.
And stay strong.
xxx
2007-01-24 11:17:19 · answer #2 · answered by Fay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never had a close friend to lose so i don't know what you are going through right now but this i do know bottling it up wont do that will only make things woes if you need to cry do it but don't let it go on to long. so i can only remind you what Jesus said Blessed are they who morn for the will be comforted and i ask our father God in the name of Jesus Christ to bless you and yours and know peace in your heart that your friend is no longer in pain and she is at peace and would want you to be as well. you are not alone he and she and lots of other nice good people are with you now as you seek to come to terms with your grief you are all ready doing very well letting it out on yahoo answers keep going and you will get through be thankful for what you have had not ever one gets what you did and as you go down memory lane think of all the good things you and your friend had to together and pass it on to some one Else who did not have it if you can yours in J. C. peter william lack.
2007-01-24 11:03:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my stepdad died in august 06,my best friend died in june of 06 .I know how you feel.Its hard to lose a close friend,but just know that they're in a better place and they're no longer suffering or in pain.
2007-01-24 10:28:48 · answer #4 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you have my deepest sympathy...i too know what it's like to lose a close friend....and you may hear this a million times but time IS a great healer...i'ts true....think of all the good things about this person, remember that she would not like to see you this way.....try and get some counselling, or talk to a close family member about it....time does heal...bless you...
2007-01-24 10:34:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My condolences on the loss of your friend. I know it's rough to lose someone you care about, but it sounds like you're dealing with it fine...at least, as well as can be expected. You need to cry. You have to let it out or it will eat you alive.
Best of luck to you.
2007-01-24 10:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Tish 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're having problems coming to terms with a bereavement contact your local CRUSE. The number is in the phone book and they are brilliant people to talk to. xxxx
2007-01-24 10:28:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only time helps. You will never get over it but will eventually come to grips with it. Live your life as your friend would want you to live it and never give up hope.
2007-01-24 10:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by mellen1978 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for ure friend. but i really dont under stand ure question. you have to move on this is what life is all about. you lose the people you love and care about. just enjoy life and pray for ure online friend. sorry for ure u and ure friend.
2007-01-24 10:31:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me say i am sorry for your lost talk your family conseler or someone you trust just write a letter to express how you feel
2007-01-24 11:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by iris b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋