this guy at school i used to HATE him because he was such a wannabe but as the year went by he seemed like a decent friend i could talk to. NOT ROMANTICALLY, now i know for a fact that he likes me but i don't and several times he has tried to cross the line and i tell him to stop i cuss him out hell i even hit theguy but he doesn't leave me alone he's also bitter cuz he asked me out and i said no so he told the guy i used to like that i charge for sex.
i have no idea how to get this idiot away cuz if he touches me i explode and hit him back but he just does it again. any advice on how i get him to stop???
2007-01-24 09:57:58 · 12 answers · asked by Fellinlovetoday 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well he hasn't bugged me the past few days mostly bcause one of the guys i really liked and used to flirt with kicked his *** cuz he saw him try to grab me. so he hasn't bugged me so far but we'll c wat happens
2007-01-25 09:30:12 · update #1
i would seriously tell some body, an adult. this situation could get very serious if he is putting his hands on you.
2007-01-24 10:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I know what you are going through! Just dont let the pressure build up. Give him a chance to be alone with you and then sit down and talk to him about what it is that is bouthering you. Tell him that if he doesnt back off, you will ignore him completetly. This should make him want to change(if he likes you like you say he does). Push his buttons. Dont let him get to you. Good Luck!
2007-01-24 10:06:23 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop communicating with him. Seriously, hitting a guy and getting angry just makes him feel important, and since he can't get you romantically (and it's harmless to him when you cuss and hit) he's going to keep on getting your goat.
Next time he starts doing nonsense like that, just walk away. If he gets in your face, just say "Look, I've got other things to worry about, and I don't have time for you."
2007-01-24 10:10:36 · answer #3 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What u have 2 do is try seriously talking to him, see where it goes then if he still deos it, try talking to a counselor or something at school. Also, whenever he is nearby, try to have a friend around. He probably won't do that stuff to you with a friend at your side.
2007-01-24 10:12:28 · answer #4 · answered by AP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could avoid him or make yourself smell really bad so he doesn't get close. hahaha. if you are a girl (i hope you are a girl) you just have to embarrass him in front of all his friends and make him feel like crap. Or find him someone that he would like better than you.
2007-01-24 10:07:08 · answer #5 · answered by chris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and talk really serious to him. if he doesnt get the point then-he has major issues and you need to tell someone that will do something about it
2007-01-24 10:05:51 · answer #6 · answered by hil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to have a very clear conversation with him. Then break it off, cleanly and neatly.
2007-01-24 10:03:20 · answer #7 · answered by tony1athome 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's scary. well first of all stop talking to and hanging out with this guy. secondly, tell someone about it. someone who could do something about him.
2007-01-24 10:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by vero_13_89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him because the attention you give him even if it just yelling telling him no , you are still paying attention to him.
2007-01-24 10:05:19 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rip off his balls, put it in a blender, then make him drink it. then he'll stp bothering you =]
2007-01-24 10:03:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋