ive kinda been goin with this girl that i really like, things are working great, and it's probably the best relationship i've ever been in.
i've introduced her to my friends (who already knew her) and in private they told me she used to be a ho, meaning that she used to mess with a lot of guys
what do you think i should do?
PS: she never told me anythin like that
2007-01-24 09:47:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well, if you like her and you guys have a great relationship, then I wouldn't worry much about what your friends say. IF she were a ho in the past, maybe she's turning over a new leaf. IF she were a ho in the past, the only thing you would really need to be worried about would be catching an STD. It's more likely that she did ONE thing and someone started a rumour and now it's got to be this big huge lie. Maybe you should tell your friends that you think she's really cool, and they shouldn't repeat gossip, it's mean and cruel to do something like that unless they actually know. Maybe they are jealous?
2007-01-24 10:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her. Casually ask her about her past...and make sure to let her in on some of your history as well. A relationship based on lies...won't last. Be honest and she will see that you respected her and your relationship by seeking the truth.
2007-01-24 10:01:31 · answer #2 · answered by wilsonsarahmarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your friends. If you are enjoying the relationship don't let anyone spoil it for you. Remember that it could be gossip and nothing more.
2007-01-24 09:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋