Do not you think that it is sometimes tiring to argue with people?

Question

Basically, I was born to be good natured, peaceful person. When I see people's stupidity, their ugly behaivior, I feel tired to argue with them at times. Sometimes you need to speak up.

Answer 1

Arguing with someone can be very tiring, especially depending on who you're arguing with. An intelligent, open-minded and receptive person would not be as likely to tire you out as much as one who is ignorant and stubborn, because the intelligent person may keep you engaged and raise the argument to the level of a debate instead, making you think about the issue from other perspectives.

Nevertheless, arguing can often be tiresome, and it's important to pick your battles. Similarly, I also think it's sometimes more difficult and tiresome to carry a grudge than to try and forgive and move on.

Answer 2

Not me. I don't argue. If someone wants to have a conversation and difference of opinion, that's fine. But I don't stand for ugly behavior. I really don't have time for people who are too stupid to form an opinion without getting angry or fighting.