How to lower sex drive?

Question

I'm 14 and i supose its the hormone problem, but i just cant resist the temptation to look at girls.This is really bad since i've been told to not do that as it is sinful for kids my age due to religious reasons. Is there a way to solve this problem?

Answer 1

I applaud you for wanting to stay morally correct. Coming from a girl that has had more than her fair share of teenage boys practically humping my leg, I can say that it is ok to look, but with respect! If you think a girl is pretty, it is not wrong to admire her. It is wrong to tell all your friends how you would tap that a$s if it were yours. As others have said, busy work will keep your mind out of the gutter. And, as a religious person myself, let me remind you that you are not a bad person at all hun.

Answer 2

First of all, you should find a better religion. One that can understand the human spirit and soul. It is natural to like to view the human body of the opposite sex. As God set up man and woman to be attracted to each other for the goodness of reproduction. Remember one of his first commandment is go forth and multiply. Yet Religion today has twisted this commandment into "Don't Look at Opposite Sexes." It is a sin. What soceity has set up in our judo-christian culture is to rebuke the human body. This is totally false, what should be taught is the have everyone view the human body as a natural view so that young teenager in puberity will be use to seeing the nude bodies of the opposite sex. They also should teach self restriant and personal respect of others. Looking at girls or boys is not a sin. It is part of growing up and learning. Teenagers should understand what each other look like, what they are feeling, and what to going to happen to our bodies as we age. It is normal to look, it is normal to dream and think of opposite sex. It is not normal to obcess about having sex. Nudity is good, and if respected in the right manner it is religiously wholesome. The more we keep from your young people the more they want to know what is being hid from them. So relax, understand that religion is a man made society way to control the minds, heart and souls of individuals. Be respectful, look, and dream, of the opposite sex. It is not a sin to do that... only if you are not respectful, don't respect others, then you are sinning.

Answer 3

Well, little brother, don't let the religious types get to you. It's normal and natural for a dude your age to look at girls. It's all part of growing up and learning how to build relationships with the opposite sex. It's not sinful to look at another person or to admire that person or even to want to be close to that person. Just don't stare. That would be rude.

Answer 4

You have a lot of good answers here. The only thing I would add is about masturbation. I wonder if your religious beliefs are discouraging you from doing it. At your age, you will be much less "horny" after you masturbate. Most doctors, psychologists and ministers recognize that masturbation is perfectly normal, and can be a great way to keep your sex drive more manageable.

Answer 5

It is normal to look at beautiful girls. A couple of things you can do to lower your sex drive is to sleep less, work physically more. Both the above are a way to channel your energy. Good luck and enjoy your life.

Answer 6

Nope, u r right, it is natural to look at girls.
It is not really a sin to do this. The sin (in some people's mind-not mine) would be to check out guys.
If u don't like checking out girls, check out guys

Answer 7

That is caused by the hormone problem, there's nothing you can do about it, so deal with it.

Answer 8

try to focus on other thngs such as ur mates or something. just try not to get involved the best u can.... do wat u think is best!