2007-01-24 09:30:26 · 17 answers · asked by ~~Sexy Lady14~~ 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Didn't you just answer another question that it felt good?
OK, I'll assume you mean being penetrated and that you haven't experienced that yet. Yes, the first time especially. But not too much. Stings sometimes (pre-ejaculate is a little caustic) at first. It helps to relax your body and to push out at the same time. And use a lubricant, of course. And have a partner who is really conscious of your body under him and isn't just masturbating inside of you.
2007-01-24 09:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
Does having sex hurt?
What kind of sex are you asking about? Are you a male asking about gay male sex? If so, I would say " yes, probably for the first few times, until your body gets used to it and you are more relaxed" In fact you can use that response for any type of first time sex. I think the only type of sex that probably doesn't hurt is lesbian sex... that is unless they are into fisting, which I am sure must hurt at least a little bit.
2007-01-24 17:56:18 · answer #2 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not if you do it right! Unless your into pain! Then I guess it's supposed to hurt! But seriously. With the right, patient person, it won't hurt. The right person will be nurturing and loving and work with you. If it hurts, say something and try another position, or some other change... You get the idea. What you don't do is put yourself in a compromising sexual situation with someone you don't know very well, who doesn't care for you... bad news... Be safe!
2007-01-24 19:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on whether or not it is your first time. Its not as much as does sex hurt, it depends on how scared and stressed you are during this ritual.If your scared, your going to be tensed up and your muscles will be tight and yes, it will hurt. So you have to relax and have a partner you trust that will take it easy and slow.
2007-01-24 18:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by happy120265 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sure can, but doesn't always have to.
When I married my first wife, we both were virgins. Still, we know the generals, what went where. But try as I might, it wasn't going in. Then when making still another try, she sneezed. I fell inside her because unrealized by me, she was holding herself tight for all she was worth because of the story of pain that her mother had told her. Suddenly, she latched onto me with her arms about me like a vice. She shuddered and shook, then laid back limp. I knew I hadn't killed her but obviously something radical happened but I didn't know what. She smiled and softly said, "Momma lied to me."
Sometimes we expect the worst when we could be enjoying the best. Still, especially in sex, the line between pain and pleasure gets really, really fuzzy at times.
2007-01-24 17:50:46 · answer #5 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! Of course it also depends on how it is done and where. But sex is the most exciting and wonderful experience you can have!
2007-01-24 19:04:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as bad as the hurt of Love.
2007-01-24 17:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by phxguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if sex is a pain in the but your doing it wrong
2007-01-24 17:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by psycho 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in a way, yes it does. but the pain is too good to stop and wanting more?
its a nice pain?
2007-01-24 19:07:23 · answer #9 · answered by dream_drifter05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the difference between pain and pleasure?
2007-01-24 18:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋