ok so my boyfriend of a while has not called me in a while but that is because he does nto get off work till 9 and then he goes to bed as soon as he gets home and it is starting to make me just a little mad and a guy that i have liked since august has finnaly broke up with his girlfriend for me and he does not know i have a boyfriend and he told me he likes me and i don't know what to do i REALLY like my boyfriend but the other guy is so cool plus I DO NOT WANT TO BREAK UP WITH OR CHEAT ON MY BOYFRIEND but i don't want to just give up on the other guy like that so what should i do !!!!!?????
2007-01-24 09:20:27 · 23 answers · asked by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok CUt Both of them into half and connect thier half body into each other so you can have both guys together or just cut the face is more simple
2007-01-24 09:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to really think this over and decide who you want to be with in the future down the road. Your boyfriend who is always working late and doesn't have time to call you or would you like to start over with someone else and possibly go through the same thing? Have you discussed this issue with your current boyfriend? Maybe if you talk to him about it he can try to get some extra time to spend with you or maybe he doesn't feel the same as you feel about him or maybe he does and wants to work so he can have money to buy you things and do things with you. Talk to him before you make any final decisions, it's not fair to him if you just leave him for someone else and he has no clue why. Please do not cheat on him, even if you htink he is or could be cheating on you! Talk to him!
2007-01-24 17:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....what i personally think u should do is talk about the problem ur having with ur boyfriend let him no how ur feeling abouto why u guys dont talk that much anymore cuz he works...and then it hink from there u should make ur decision if u want to still b with ur boyfriend and b with the other guy ...or u can still talk to the other guy get to know him more and see whathappends from there so then u can make your mind up because u cant be with both that will just b plain wrong.
2007-01-24 17:48:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your boyfriend as long as everything is okay between you two and you do not want to see other people than it is simple you stay together and be friends with the other guy if you can. if things are not going to work with the boyfriend than you start to date the new guy. try to see each of them one after the other-sometimes that makes the choice easier-differences are more apparent
2007-01-24 17:32:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world, its work guy's gotta work. Tell the other guy you got a boyfriend and your flatterd but I won't cheat so if i'm single again I'll call ya peace. Just like that.
Your interested in breaking things off because your mans got a job jeee's whats wrong with you people these day's, you obviously don't love him that much so just don't have a boyfriend
2007-01-24 17:28:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You seem still too immature for a committed relationship in that you use your b/f's limited availability [his working!] as a check and balance for choosing one or another...
You're MAD because he is being responsible and working, then getting his needed rest? Can you not wait until the weekend or whenever his days off are?
You might do yourself and your b/f a favor and not involve yourself in ANY relationship for awhile.
2007-01-24 17:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by sage seeker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're pretty mean. If I worked till 9, I would definitely want to go to bed rather than listen to my whiny nagging girlfriend.
2007-01-24 17:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf is working, he is tired, he needs sleep, with no $ there is no going out and no presents for the girlfriend. the other guy is "cool" but on the rebound. you will get hurt. dont go for the cool guy go for the one you love. if you leave this bf for another guy what makes you think that you wont do it again when the chance arises. dont become a ***** or slut jumping from guy to guy is not nice to play with other people's feelings. talk with your boyfriend and tell him what you feel.
2007-01-24 17:26:17 · answer #8 · answered by MAX 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
look your boyfriend is making excuse to call you so find out why?...the other guy didn't break up with his girlfriend for you , probably had other reasons , i know this because i do that myself so i know the deal which one overall has better qualities ....then choose!
2007-01-24 17:30:00 · answer #9 · answered by DAMIEN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well.
1st off.If you're bf cant make time for you now,when will he ever?
2nd off.You say that you don't want to break up with him but you don't want to cheat on him.Why not just take a small break(like a vacation.You go have fun*with the other guy* and think about things but then when you make up your mind,things go back to normal*depending on who you pick*)
3rd.You say he "finally" broke up with his gf like you were waiting for him to.If you wanted him then what makes you change your mind now?
And those were the only things I could think of.
2007-01-24 17:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋