We have sex 2-3 times every time we meet (once or twice a week) but he will almost always finish quickly. The size is small too and even though I don't complain to him, I wonder if this is my fault. Men: what can the lady do or not do in order to improve this situation?
I'd appreciate some details from someone who's experienced this.
2007-01-24 09:19:25 · 12 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Most men only last 2-3 minutes. Try stopping occasionally, or stop and put on a condom.
2007-01-24 09:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by chieromancer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get some stay hard or those type products from your local noveltey shop. Cock rings help make it last also. But the stay hard products or anything like it are very popular. And no its not anyones fault as some men are just more sensitive then others. I am a buyer for a lingerie shop that includes these items and i am sometimes called the sex therapist as i have been dealing with sex problems for many many years.
2007-01-24 09:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must say, it's quite weird that your partner became so angry, he might be taking drugs (but only maybe). Other than that, he might be one of those people who show their real self later on the relationship, and people can change in generally. Something can also be bothering him but he violently approached you which is a bit frightening and even more that he thinks you started the violence. . . it seems odd. Explain this whole situation to him during counseling. There are still many chances for other reasons but who would approach their girlfriend like that? That's a big negative mark on a person in my book.
2016-05-24 05:20:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it's not your fault; and it's not his fault either. He has to learn how to hold back and also that sex in not over just because he's already gotten off. There are other things to do besides intercourse, so you and he might want to do some exploring about that. He might want to do a web search on premature ejaculation to learn ways for him to control his own normal natural response and so make the sexual experience much more pleasureable to him and for you. Talk with each other about all this.
2007-01-24 09:36:33 · answer #4 · answered by Richard B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he has a problem dealing with excitement.He needs to slow down like real slow.Tell him it's not for the orgasm but the timing and excitement factor.And calculate on how he is improving.Mabe he will get more confidence in his abilities as time goes on.Peace Victorio
2007-01-24 09:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called self control. A guy can last forever if he stops before the point of no return, waits, restarts, stop again as neceassary. After 10 minutes he shouldn't need to stop.
2007-01-24 09:29:29 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be your fault because your just to darn good!
With that out of the way.... Discuss it with him. Does he realize its a concern to you?? Try things with him to help prolong... such as a change of pace or postion at a perfectly timed moment. Ask him to read up on what other men with the same problem what they do to prolong themselves (i.e. the ol baseball thougths and what not).
2007-01-24 10:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by Majik9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, good lord. Of course it not your fault. Geeeeez. Why is this about you? You said he's small....so how the cuck is that YOUR fault? He comes quickly is HIS issue. Not yours.
2007-01-24 09:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO Kim, it is NOT your fault!!! He has a problem called premature ejaculation.
Have him give you oral sex before intercourse so you will climax first. He can also wear a thick condom for more endurance.
2007-01-24 09:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea all your fault just kidding , incorporate a lot of foreplay. when he is about to ejaculate have him stop a head of time. bring toys fresh fruit cool whip all THE ( GOODIES) to bed with you . more tips email me.
2007-01-24 10:03:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋