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Tell her she can wear them when she has a job and can pay for them. If she has to spend her own money to buy them, she probably won't want them. Just make sure she isn't like 12 and using her babysitting money or allowance. Another thing: find out WHY she wants to wear them. Is it because you do, or cause all of her friends do and she wants to be "cool". If she wants to do it because she thinks guys will find it "sexy", I've got news for her. I DO NOT wear thongs, and I don't have any trouble with guys thinking I'm sexy. Being a young woman who doesn't wear thongs to impress guys can make her all the more sexy to them.

Just make sure her intentions are clear; make sure she wants to wear them for her.

Another option would always be to buy her see-through lowrise drawstring lace undies, or something else that she would find "sexy".

2007-02-01 00:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Because there are health risks (from transfer of bacteria from the anus to the vagina) I would suggest you determine if she is responsible enough to wear them based on her personal hygiene and cleanliness.

You could have a great discussion with her as to why she wants to wear thongs/g-strings. They were originally designed by Calvin Klein to have NO PANTY LINE showing. This is usually not the reason Jr High or High School aged girls want to wear them.

find out if she thinks they are pretty, if she thinks they are sexy, necessary, everyone is doing it, etc. You can learn a lot about what is influencing your daughter by this one conversation.

Good Luck!!!!

2007-02-01 05:20:42 · answer #2 · answered by Tallgrrlme 1 · 0 0

Sometimes it is best to give children what they ask for and let them discover it is not necessarily what they want. At age 10, my niece wanted a thong so I bought her one. She wore it one time because she found it uncomfortable. She didn't start wearing thongs again until age 15 and even now doesn't wear them all the time.

Good Luck

2007-01-24 09:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Pam 2 · 0 0

To tell you the truth, I wear thongs. Thongs and g-strings aren't bad, all they are is underwear. You should let her wear them. I started wearing some when I was 11!

2007-02-01 05:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by xo Brittaannyy 1 · 0 0

my younger sister wanted one years ago (she was 12 at the time) so i went with her to victoria's secret. I bought her a regular thong ,g-string and one pair of boyshorts. I remember that next morning as she put on the thong and modeled it for me she thought something was "wrong" with it. She just wasnt used to it and put on a pair of tight jeans. When she got home all i saw her doing was picking it. It kept riding up on her and she wasn't used to it. SHe told me she would never wear it again but i talked to her and got her to wear the pink gstring i bought her tomorrow... She wanted it basically for not showing panty lines and you know... to be like the other girls. She put the gstring on and thought it wasn't nearly as bad as the thong, but said the thong only hurt bad sometime and the gstring always felt weird. I taught her like my best friend my age taught me... i grabbed her gstring and yanked it way way up... I told her wear it like that for a whole day and it will never bother you again. When she came home, she had worn it all day and said shell never wear a gstring again.
I told her to try again and she did a few days later. After coming home from school she said she didn't feel the gstring and she loves it.
Boyshorts are agreat option too but bad for sports.

SO if you want her to keep wearing them, buy her a gstring or boyshorts, if not buy her a regular thong....

O YA AND 12 IS OLD ENOUGH

2007-01-24 18:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Wendy 1 · 0 0

I have boys and I had to stop by the local high school before school started. As I was leaving, I was walking thru the hallways and I swear almost every girl was bent over their locker with their thong sticking out. I spoke to my son about it later that day, and he says its no big deal. I know I would have a "hard" time if I was in school. Answer to your question, when you're in college.

2007-01-31 09:21:12 · answer #6 · answered by ripdabs 1 · 0 0

I agree that she should not be allowed to positioned on g-strings and thongs at this age although i think of this is sort of harsh announcing she would be in a position to't till she's 22. she'll legally be an grownup at 18 and you will on no account be waiting to administration her anymore. Your daughter isn't attempting to "galvanize" every person by ability of wearing deodorant and wanting to shave her legs. She is purely feeling self-wakeful approximately herself and is wanting to experience clean and correctly groomed. i'm 14 and that i've got been utilising anti-perspirant deodorant on a daily basis considering the fact that i became 11. this is not area of being a new child, human beings opt to sniff clean and clean, exceedingly for the period of and after activities. i detect it unusual which you think of shaving her legs will without notice reason boys to be quickly attracted to her. Does she positioned on shorts and skirts with out tights? I reckon, in all hazard no longer. So if no longer, then there is no way what you stated will ensue, boys do no longer stare at woman's legs whilst they are lined up and that they are lots greater probably to stare at her boobs or curves. in the experience that your daughter is clever she'll save faraway from the lads who purely care a pair of woman's physique. Why are your a while so particular? returned, She'll be waiting to try this after she's an grownup, that's 18. Cuts can particularly be prevented by ability of use of shaving cream. i've got been shaving my legs considering the fact that i became 12, yet I even have easy, skinny hair so i purely do it each and each month and whilst i pass on holiday overseas. returned, she needs to experience beneficial and wiped clean up. I say enable her use deodorant and shave her legs. Edit: instead of limiting her, i advise you attempt implementing solid ethical values like no longer eating, no longer smoking, no longer taking drugs nor turning out to be promiscuous. those are greater significant issues to rigidity approximately. i'm beneficial your daughter is particularly properly behaved although.

2016-11-01 04:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by dembinski 4 · 0 0

I would say high school or when ever she can start buying her own clothes. Just make sure you think that she is mature enough. When I was in school there was alot of girls that would wear them just to show them off to guys and not for their real purpose.They were known as sluts & You don't want your daughter to be one of those girls so just be smart about it. I hope this helps! Good Luck :)

2007-01-24 09:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by She is Beautiful! 6 · 0 0

I think that this is something that you should discuss with your daughter. I dont think it has anything to do with age!! I come from a family of 3 girls so plently of experience.. lol
If she asks for one. Buy her one. Explain that we usually wear them with tight dresses etc But in the end its really her choice. If she feels comfortable in one then let her wear it. We all have to remember that its not something everyone is going to see. It underwear!!! Explain to her that its for her and not for anyone else to see.

2007-01-31 20:51:04 · answer #9 · answered by LC 2 · 0 0

Usually by 17 years of age.
No matter what we told our daughter she wore what she wanted too and when she turned 17, she wore just about everything she did, but she never got pregnant and graduated from College last year.
It goes to show you can put too much on a child or not enough.

2007-01-31 22:24:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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