One of my best friends at school is a guy & I know he likes me & all but me & Randon already plained on going to the dance together now Jake is really mad at me & won't talk to me. I just don't know how to make myself feel better. I feel like I stabbed him in the back
2007-01-24 08:38:54 · 13 answers · asked by megan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you had plans with one guy already, you didn't do anything wrong. Get over it. He's a moron for making you feel guilty. Don't let him bring you down, if he doesn't get it, he's not a very good friend.
2007-01-24 08:44:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You didn't stab him in the back, so you don't have to be sad. In fact you are the one who should be mad. He should have asked you to the dance before any one else had the chance to do so. Next time you meet give him a card that tells him that he means a lot to you (just remember if you have feelings for Randon, don't raise Jake's hopes) and that next time you will ask him to the dance so that you can be together.
2007-01-24 16:52:15 · answer #2 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? Is there an engagement ring on your finger put there by Jake? If not, he's got no business getting mad at you. You are not his to control and you're better off without him. Enjoy the dance with Randon and forget Jake.
2007-01-24 16:44:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u go to the dance with randon, that doesn't mean u can't be friends wid jason. but who will be the better friend in the end after the dance. If u really care about randon n he cares about u then jake shud understan. Wen ur sad ur suposed to laugh wid ur frens so clear tings up wid him and hav sum chocolate, gummy bears n watch a funny show.
2007-01-24 16:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by question_freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u commit to him or just knew he d love to go wid u? If u did then u can apologise..n express urself honestly but not rudely , otherwise make him comfy n try to cheer him up by doin funny things or gettin him a gift or maybe sing him his fav. song...nething u think would make him happy in either case N THEN after u ve tried ur best ...leave the rest :)
2007-01-24 16:53:23 · answer #5 · answered by Muskan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was nothing you could do if u had already made other arrangements then you have to stick to them and he should be mature enough to accept that, just let him huff and he will come round he's prob acting like this for attention. Go and stick on your fav prog or film and chill out and have a laugh.
2007-01-24 16:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by louisem28 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read some funny books
or watch the simpsons
A good laugh is always good medicine
2007-01-24 16:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by ZAK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you didn't, he might be going through a phase where he wants you and him to be together and it is ruining his plans 4 you 2 be together. try to help him understand that you can still dance together and have fun! good luck!!!
2007-01-24 18:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I do to help is that I listen to songs on the raido!
2007-01-24 16:43:43 · answer #9 · answered by Phoyos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pick the guy that will stick with u through thick and Thin not just dump u because he is bored w/u or does not like wat u do and CHOCOLATE HELPS ME ALOT! LOL
2007-01-24 16:44:31 · answer #10 · answered by blond_beach_bum124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋