I have a friend who is 16 and has had a girlfriend for 3 weeks now, and he hasnt done anything with her, not gotten off with her, or even given her a peck on the cheek, he sees her nearly everyday where they make very little contact with eachother, and she even tried to kiss him once and he looked away, it would be his first kiss if and when they do it. I wonder how long she will stay with him for if he keeps messing her around, and he is always talking about her, could he just be using her to look big infront of his friends when in facts hes as frigid as a witch's tite, or maybe gay?
Btw this isnt me, i am still 15 and had my first kiss and more a good while ago. Thanx for ne serious answers
2007-01-24 08:31:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And just to be sure, i dont think it wierd he hasnt had sex, just the kissing bit, and i dont rub this in his face, me and sum1 else were just thinking about it recently
2007-01-24 08:43:44 · update #1
There's the possibility he has a higher set of values and morals and wants to be sure that "she's the one" before making any physical commitment. Believe it or not, it's not a bad thing to be 16 and a virgin.
2007-01-24 08:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not wierd. Y'all are 16...there isn't anything wrong with waiting or taking your time. He could be nervous. Maybe his family taught him some good stuff to make him a little slower in the action field ya know.
It may be hard to imagine this cuz it might be considered cool to score and get further in that dept. then the next.....but it's a good thing to wait.
There are all kinds of "possibilities" on why your friend acts this way but I wouldn't necessarily say that.
Are you gay?
Anything is possible. Try asking him....although if someone is tryin to cover something up then obviously honesty wouldn't be his response.
As for the girl and how long she will stay w/him...that depends on her. If she is a nice girl without conerns of getting far in that dept. and if there is good communication between them then it could last for awhile or a long time. It depends on what she or even he is looking for. But relationships end for many reasons. If it did end...it might not necessarily be because she didn't get action...it could be just that people get to know each other and learn that maybe they don' thave much in common, they didn't like each other as much as they thought, learned that this person is actually a "jerk" or something...or whatever the reason may be.
2007-01-24 16:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by tr95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was always very shy. I would always wait for the girl to make the first move. I have also been dumped for not being the aggressive guy girls thought I was. It's a learning experience. Just let him be. If he asks for advice at some point then give it.
2007-01-24 16:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by major b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may be shy,not ready or possibly gay. but either one is not a big deal. a relationship isn't supposed to be about what you can get from someone. when he feels comfortable it will all work out,regardless of which it is. if he is your friend you will act like one and not give him to hard a time. you could try talking with him instead of asking strangers that don't know either of the involved parties.
2007-01-24 16:45:54 · answer #4 · answered by b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Witch's title ???
no boys develop at different speeds so does a girl it doesnt mean anything
a girl is not there to pleasure yourself on and neither is a guy you think that way thats how teenage pregnancy starts i applaud your friend for having the brains not to go there
2007-01-24 17:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by shannara 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do kids try to grow up SO fast these days. Maybe your friend is shy or has alot of respect for her. it doesn't hurt to be good friends and enjoy each others company.
2007-01-24 17:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by sweet candy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The world is not merely about sex and related affections. Boyfriend/girlfriend coupling is not merely about coupling. I wouldn't worry about it. It isn't weird, just unusual to your line of life experience. Don't let it bother you, especially since it doesn't bother them.
2007-01-24 17:20:56 · answer #7 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably not comfident in his kissing abulitiys. He could be scared to do it. I think it would help if you gave this friend some advice on how to do it.
2007-01-24 16:38:21 · answer #8 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is either extremely shy or is Gay, If you're concerned about his relationship, help him out and get him to try smoochin this girlfriend. It's like the old commercial, "try it, you'll like it".
2007-01-24 16:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by kb6jra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 weeks - - that is not very long at all - oh to you I amsure it is but it isn't. No one should feel presured to do anything they do not want to do. You are a rotten friend!
2007-01-24 16:41:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋