so i have been dateing my b/f for 2 yrs and i tend to catch him lieing to me but about stupid things nothing big and yesterday his cousin spilled something i guess he went out and didnt tell me . he told me he was going home..but went with his friends out to a party and got drunk and his friends live with this girl who likes him well she likes everyone.. but anyway i realy dont think he would cheat but u never know when ur drunk... im thinking about braking up w/ him am I over reacting ?.. im mad he never told me and its like is their other stuff not being said... im very annoyed
2007-01-24 07:47:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think you should give him another chance though and try to talk him out of it, spend more times together and it will come around for you I believe. I had that problem too once but I got dealt with, it doesn't hurt to say it....
2007-01-24 07:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing as how THIS is something that he's lied about, what other kinda things has he been lying about? For all you know, this relationship is nothing but one big lie. He's lied about other things, which makes him sound too immature to be in a full-committed relationship. If you don't want a lying boyfriend, I suggest you either break up with him, or discuss this with him.
Tell him (if you don't break up with him) that if he wants this relationship to go any further, he's going to have to get his act together, and that means to stop lying. Tell him that relationships are hard work, and if he's not ready for one, then he shouldn't have got involved with you. Personally, if I were you, I'd break up with him. He's immature, and he sounds like he doesn't know what he wants.
2007-01-24 09:30:23 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 01:28:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not over-reacting. Tell him firmly that you do not appreciate his behaviour and that if he doesn't come clean with you and straighten up his act then you will leave him. There are plenty of guys out there who would never keep things from you, especially not lie about going out and drinking.
2007-01-24 07:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by Vena cava 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to figure out why your boyfriend of 2 years, who you supposively love and who supposively loves you, cannot tell you the truth. What is it you do that leads him to believe you would be mad at him if he told you the truth?
Then you need to find a guy that can tell you the truth.
2007-01-24 07:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok very understandable, first of all u need to tell him why u are upset.
secondly dont break up with him let him say his peace give him a chance to solve anything and put it right if he hurts u again the break up with him ok
2007-01-24 07:52:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's getting away with lying then he is going to keep doing it and more bigger lies too. Break it off because you can't trust someone who just keeps digging himself deeper.
2007-01-24 07:52:32 · answer #7 · answered by RoadRunner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with him because you don't sound happy with him.
2007-01-24 07:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Havana Brown 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋