2007-01-24 07:42:37 · 32 answers · asked by shawna u 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be satisfied that you tried everything you can and focus on other friendships :)
2007-01-24 07:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by mnhuskyluv 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know why someone would hate someone so much? I think maybe you should think long and hard about why this person hates you so bad. Anything short of murder doesn't justify that strong of a hate and especially if prior to this you were friends. If you have spoken your peace and have done all that you can without a constant repeat, then maybe you should just let is rest for awhile. It does take some people much longer to come around than others. It may be an inncident that will never heal itself. Maybe also you should think really hard if you want to be friends with someone who has so much hatred.
2007-01-24 07:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there hope this helps try to apologize once more and if they still hate your guts then they musent have been a friend as friends forgive no matter what happens so just leave this person alone for a while and see what happens give them space some times helps then let them make the first move next.
good luck kate
2007-01-24 07:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by kateelizabethpearce 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on with your life. Believe me, please believe me when I say it is wasted energy. I spent months trying to rationalize why this girl would not befriend me (we had a falling out over something juvenile). I finally realized there was nothing I could do to make her want to be my friend again... and had to let it go. What a free feeling that was knowing my heart was no longer heavy. Now here I am, still caring about her, but not wanting her friendship... because someone who harbors anger in such a way is someone I no longer want around me.
Chin up.
2007-01-24 07:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not much you can do. Try not to let it upset you. Its in their hands now and up to them. A bit more time might help. Also if they can see not only by your words that you are sorry, but by your actions as well, that will help.
Chin up. Its a horrible feeling isnt it? Just remember all the people who do love you. (God loves u too remember).
Best of wishes
Hope it works out
2007-01-24 07:50:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have no reason to apologize to them then don't. If you did nothing to them then don't worry about it- obviously they have an issue with you. And if you are the one that needs to apologize for something you need to tell them "Look, I'm sorry. I don't know how else to make it anymore clear that I am sorry." And if they don't accept that's their problem! They obviously have issues.
2007-01-24 07:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by none 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize if you owe the person one. Then just accept that they hate you. That's life.
2007-01-24 07:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actions speak louder then words. If he loves you, he will show you that he loves you. Was he drunk when he said it? Was it in the heat of a fight? All depends on the time and place. Sometimes we say things in anger. If he says he's sorry...again, action speaks louder then words and you can only say your sorry so many times before it's null and void.
2007-01-24 07:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Michele K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've apologized but they can't let it go?
Dear you've done what you can. Just step back and ignore them. If they approach you or bully you in any way - the best thing to do is simply be nice and step back again.
Try to avoid them if you can- there is really no sense in raising their ire.
2007-01-24 07:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop apologizing and move on with your life. you made a mistake, you're humane and you owe nothing. everybody isn't going to like you. appreciate those that love you for who you are and don't stop living just because someones pissed at you and can't move on. that's unnecessary pressure on their heart. move on and smile sister. it'll be alright in the morning!
2007-01-24 07:50:18 · answer #10 · answered by QueenMother 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
saying *sorry* is hard for most ppl, that is human nature.... and it is human nature to NOT accept the *sorry* from ppl who have hurt you that deep..... we do NOT want to get hurt again.... so I suggest you write a little note just saying how sorry you are, , excuses would only make the person more angry, and saying that you hope that they will some day feel they can forgive you, then let it go.... it is their choice or decision from there........... God bless
2007-01-24 07:49:19 · answer #11 · answered by Annie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋