Main reason, he is a guy when he has a girl he disappears and never does anything with his friends, I have known him for 15 years the pattern is always the same but we all are in serious relaitonships now so I realize we all spend time with our significant others but we still try to make some plans where its only the guys..he doesn't and quite frankly I am just sick of it..my Girlfriend understand why I want to watch the Superbowl just the guys...his girlfriend doesn't and showed up and the championship game..
2007-01-24 07:42:37 · 14 answers · asked by Confused Friend 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Kindly tell the poof to piss off.
2007-01-24 07:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He has more interest in the girls than he does the guys and love can a mother. maybe he is not the type to have a girl or sex often and when he gets it he is hooked.
then again you have to look at it like this too, at the end of the he can not lay down satisfy you or get pleasure from you so he is where he wants to be, i think if you are a friend and you understand don't get mad and leave him then you would not be a friend sounds like you like him for yourself and may be jealous of him. A real friend will be there no matter what and talk to him and tell him and give him the chance to come around first if not you was never a friend of his in the first place.
2007-01-24 07:53:36 · answer #2 · answered by ladybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, Every one needs and expects different things.The thing you should be asking yourself is "besides this part of him is he a bad or horrible friend who I cant trust or like?"You see, you have your way and he has his.Does he try to imply that you need to change to be like him? Probably not,so why is it so necessary for him to be like you? If I was you I wouldn't be so quick to judge someone based on their love life needs as much as their personality as a whole.If you truly want to be his friend and want to let him know he is neglecting you and other friends,just stop inviting him places and when he invites you all over tell him you have other plans.When he realizes somethings up and comes asking why you all don't want to be with him,that's when you imply that's how you and everyone felt with him when he would blow you all off to be with her.Help him to understand rather than just kick him to the curb after 15yrs.If he don't figure it out and never calls,then the job you wanted to accomplish is already done for you.
2007-01-24 07:53:50 · answer #3 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Harsh... I am sure everyone has friends like this. The best thing to do is invite him once in awhile to the major events that you have with your guy friends (birthdays, going away, etc). Otherwise, it's best if you just let it be. You get frustrated when he says no and I'm sure he feels bad about saying no.
If your friendship is strong (and 15 years is a long time), I'm sure he will come around sooner or later.
Good luck!
2007-01-24 07:50:13 · answer #4 · answered by Holly Golightly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strong for you for status as a lot as them. keep up the bravery and do not care about what they might say. in the adventure that they war some thing nasty at school report them. i'm effective you aren't any further the in user-friendly words man or woman who perspectives them as mean. connect a club at school or merely pluck up the braveness to sit with human beings at lunch. Get chatting with human beings and also you'll make new acquaintances.
2016-12-03 00:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by barby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the exact same situation with a girl friend of mine, I know it's not the best way to do it, but I've just kind of stopped e-mailing her, that was the main way we talked anyway.
Then it's kind of in their court, if they ask why you've been so distant, just nicely say you haven't made an effort to get together, so I just gave up.
2007-01-24 07:46:39 · answer #6 · answered by Valerie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a chick. Why not just know the guy has his own imperfections. Make less of an effort and keep the guy as a lesser friend. Why all the drama?
2007-01-24 07:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Point break let that person know the guys are just going to kick it..you could shack up another day...just really let them know how you feel and don't leave anything out...but on the other hand if his girl is controlling then good luck
2007-01-24 08:05:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You're going to throw a 15 year friendship down the toilet because you are jealous? Grow up.
2007-01-24 07:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just give him the cold shoulder,don,t answer his calls and when he comes asking why the change just be honest and tell him whats going on,.
2007-01-24 07:50:48 · answer #10 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Show him a Picture of My Ex-Wife! Tell him, that you'll sick her on him.If he doesn't leave you alone. He'll puke, before he can leave.LOL
2007-01-24 07:48:18 · answer #11 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋