When is it safe to say I love You?

Question

I have been dating this wonderful guy for7 months and recently pregnant...This is his 1st child. I definately can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. I am divorsed with children from my 1st husband. I always believed actions speak louder than words so never felt the need to always have to say it. I really want to tell him though just to get it off my chest. What do you think ?

Answer 1

Congratulations! If you truly love him and you feel comfortable with him just let him know. When I know I love someone I have a hard time not telling them. You'll be a family soon and communicating your feelings is so important for a good stable relationship. He might be wondering if you love him and is afraid to ask you. Let him know.

Answer 2

By you being a girl never some things should continue to left up for the man to do. Let him say it first so get all that out of your mind and just relax so therefore you will no for sure that he loves you. You will feel much better when he says it first and don't bother him about it it will delay time for the three words that you long to hear. Don't fall victim I am telling what works just think about how will you truly know that he loves you, if you say it first he may have to lie to spare your feelings or you may get a "that's nice", now do you want either. I don't care what the circumstance is DON'T EVER, NEVER EVER AS LONG AS YOUR A WOMAN SAY THOSE WORDS FIRST! And I know this from experience I don't say it first and I got told first and it truly feels good. Put it this way if seven months went by and you haven't heard it, nine times out of ten he will say it eventually there is no time limit but for me seven months is kinda long but every one is different I usually hear it after three months and I think that is appropriate and long enough to genuinely love someone, so if you want to wear his balls by all means tell him first and while you are at it ask him for his hand in marriage too. Much love and good luck.

Answer 3

Say it when you feel it. There should be no real answer as to "when is the right time"? You will know.

Plus, now you are having a child together. I truly hope things work out for all of you. Just say what you are feeling. So many of us have withheld it, and then it was too late. You will know him so much better too, after you get his reaction to your words. Good luck.

Answer 4

Just tell him when he's in a good mood and you two are having a good time together. Don't sit there and stare at him and expect him to say it back, that might put some pressure on him. If he feels the same then he'll say it, but if he doesn't say it then don't make a big deal out of it.

Answer 5

when you two do something nice together, or he gives you a gift, then you can say that for granted. Even he is not ready for that, it is ok, you just show your happiness by saying so, no big deal.

PS: you guys are really shy, huh? 7 months? pregnant? still not said I love you? the guy I am seeing said that so easily, however this also made me feel he just too easy to say that.

Anyway, good luck.

Answer 6

I think you should wait and let him tell you that he love you first and then you may the assurance to spend the rest of your life with him along with meeting your needs.

Answer 7

Uh, yeah say it.

You're pregnant already? What is this world coming to. Usually you play around with the words first.

Answer 8

I think you're definately overdue for a few hundred I love you's. Better speak now or never.

Answer 9

if you love him tell him. It has been long enough, and you are pregnant! You have been in a relationship before, so I think you will know when the time is right.

Answer 10

It's always best to do it when you guys are having a really good time together. Then just say it, and see how he reacts.