I was alandered all over my office yesterday and then I was written up. I work in an office of 12. Nothing here is private. I feel like everyone is judging me when I they do not know the situation and I could never tell them the situation. How should I handle this?
2007-01-24 06:37:01 · 8 answers · asked by just me 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Keep you head up with dignity and act like nothing happened. I am a firm believer in what goes around comes around and the truth always comes out. In the end you will have peace of mind you did the right thing and you were respectful about it and it will build you character and selfesteem. It's rough now but in the long haul you will be ok.
2007-01-24 06:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by LaHoma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweets if you feel like everyone is judging you and don't really know what's going on, maybe you're sending mixed signals or letting off an aura that isn't really jiving with the work place. No matter what you think is private, at work always be on your "A Game." As for the decision you made, at this point only time will tell. Be confident in yourself, and know that what you did was okay.
2007-01-24 07:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by paytaymak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I know it can be difficult but remember that you office is a place of business and not your personal space for privacy and it is not a popularity contest. I am not sure why you were written up b/c you did not make that clear in your question but I can tell you that it might make it easier to deal with owrk if you remember that privacy and friendship are not two expectations that you should have at the office. Go there and do your job and go home and you should be fine.
2007-01-24 06:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by angihorn2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't loose you balance over this. No one is important enough to lie to, so think of your self in car wreck, if you are expected to wear your seat belt, everyone else is too. Haul off and blurt out the truth, let them feel embarrassed about being so snoopie. even if it has to do with sex, passing gas, puking on your shoes. Let 'em laugh, cry, sneer. But never bend so far as to hide. If the ride gets too rough, look for another job, before you turn in your resignation. and if you do quite do tell them why. Tell them there are just too personal for your taste. turn it around on them. and don't write down anything you don't read on a radio station. good luck...p.s. tell them little people talk about other people, big people talk about ideas, and winners keep trying...
2007-01-24 06:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
work is worship. Worship is pure with no negative intentions but full of innocence.When there is more than one it is a team and each member of the team judge the other with no negative intentions but with positive intentions by being a part of the team with the sole aim to win.So my friend do throw out the negative from your mind and see the brighter side.Never assume and make your self and others uncomfortable and be a spoiler of the team then it is where you are not part of the team.
2007-01-24 06:54:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
AR-15? Just Kidding.
Find the person you get along best with, and try to give some type of explaination. Speak openly about your thoughts, and maybe they can help stop the drama.
Divide and Conquere.
2007-01-24 06:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by Zeke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Upper management sounds like the only way to go, as far as the write-up. If they don't trust you to be honest and act with integrity concerning the matter, you should look elsewhere for employment. Clearly, you won't get far there.
2007-01-24 06:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by brainiac5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know the truth
that is what matters
realize that when people who know nothing are judging you without caring what the truth is or even what your version is, its just idle gossip
2007-01-24 06:45:40 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋