Ok just wondering if this has ever happened to , anybody before. I've been so upset, and seemed to at a dead end, or at a lost for moving on all over a broken heart. Now aas of yesterday I was still missing, and wanting my husband who I've been seperated from for about 6mo now. When I woke this morning I felt lighter, happier, you know it's like I've come to realize that we're not ment to be, that he could'nt of been the one, the love of my life, if that was the case things would of never happened the way they did. Has this ever happened to you??Now what to do next??
2007-01-24 05:44:40 · 12 answers · asked by D lux 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Go start your life, date, have fun.
2007-01-24 05:47:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get drunk, go to a strip club, get a lap dance, and have some fun.
Wait, you're a woman. Hell, go ahead, why not. Male strip club, female strip club, just start living life again.
It was tough when I finally got divorced. Now, I wouldn't turn back for anything. I spend time with my kids, and when they are not there, I do what I like to do. Most of the time it is working overtime for more money, but I have that option without the hassle anymore.
Look out world, here she comes.
2007-01-24 13:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called the moment of realization (otherwise known as closure). This is a good thing... you'll be able to move on now knowing that you've done the right thing.
Time to have fun and get on with your life. I suggest.. makeover/spa day, make plans with friends, maybe even a vacation. Make some positive change in your life.. do things that make you feel great... all will lead to strong self confidence... and you'll just feel better and better ever day!
2007-01-24 13:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by CEP 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start enjoying your life again. He´s not meant to be your husband and you really deserve someone that can love you truly. Life is full of surprises and you have to learn to keep moving on forward and try not to get trapped in the past, in the good old memories, because you always going to experience better events and relationships in the future. Good luck.
2007-01-24 13:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by icecool_oh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you've reached the breaking point, you will have the clear vision, teh strenght and the knowledge necesary to make life changing desisions.
It happened to me too, I somehow knew that our relationship wasn't perfect, but I learned to get used to it; I also knew in the back on my head that I was out of his league and that we were not compatible, but chose to stick around and put up with it. I lived in denial pretending that everything was running smooth when in reality it took a lot of work to hold evrything together and it was draining me.
I reached the breaking point in marriage counseling, I realized that I was stubborn to think that our relationship could be saved but it was trhen when I realized that our relationship was unhealthy and not normal. I opened my eyes and realized that life was too short to be miserable and that I deserve better than him.
After that, I filed for divorce. I'm free now and having the time of my life.
2007-01-24 13:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! The same thing happened with me and my ex-wife. It took me a little longer than you, but now its like I have accepted the end of our marriage. We are still in contact with each other and still friends, because we have agreed to be so because of our children. But now, you are in a position to move on with your life. Get out there, do things that you have been wanting to do and haven't, just enjoy life!!! Good luck!!
2007-01-24 13:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Nice guy in OR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you realise this then move on with your life and take it one day at a time....File for divorce if there is not hope of reconciling your marriage and relationship with your husband.
2007-01-24 13:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your broken heart is starting to mend. You have a life to live. Go live it.
2007-01-24 13:49:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this happened to me, i wasnt married but i was with someone for 2 years. i would say go out and date be yourself and find the guy who wants to find you!!!! good luck
2007-01-24 13:50:54 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you!
Move on and enjoy your life!
2007-01-24 13:50:19 · answer #10 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋