2007-01-24 05:38:25 · 37 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don’t’ get me wrong what I am about to say, but when I married my husband he had a lot of baggage! In addition, one of them was his terrible sister to this day I cannot stand her. It took a lot out of me the first fifteen years. The man had many issues, but we were able to over come most of them, you ask would I have married him still if I knew all the heart ach I would have to suffer the answer is no. I love this man to death he is my everything, but I could have gone without all the pain I had to in dour for so many years. Our marriage is good now and I thank God we made it this far, I hope to grow old with him, and never have to love another.
2007-01-24 05:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Absolutely. A lot of people find that special someone, and then it falls apart. A lot of times it is because they did not put the proper effort and care into their relationship. The thing is that the grass always looks better on the other side. For all her faults, my wife is sweet, loving, has good values, works hard, treats me well, and shares many of my interests. No one is perfect, and in my case there is a LOT to like. What makes me think that I could do better? I am not sure I can... or that anyone else can, either!
Other times people misread the person or let their emotions block out their rational thought, and they marry the wrong person. That is another reason that someone might ask a question like yours, aside of just curiosity of course! This is why you should always think out your relationships with your logic, and not just your emotions. Be smart! Make sure you know what you are getting into. Seek out a professional counselor if necessary. A marriage needs to be planned out in order to be successful. It is a legal contract. Make sure you read all the small print before signing the dotted line!
So in answer to your question, YES! I would definitely marry them today. She's a great gal, and I love her. Hard work and proper planning are the reasons for our success.
2007-01-24 05:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great question....It is really hard to say but I would say yes. I saw a picture this year of the other guy that I almost married and I took one look at him and the years havent been good to him at all. My husband has his faults like we all do..but he is a good person and still looks hot after 15 years.
2007-01-24 05:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Yes! It has been 7 years and I would do it all over again in a heartbeat. He is a wonderful husband, and the perfect father to our baby.
I never wanted to get married until I met him. I used to be one of those chicks that used guys and then kicked them to the curb for fun. Then, when I met my husband, he turned my life upside down and changed me forever.
2007-01-24 05:51:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, bad 1st marriage, I would have continued my education and my life path would have been significantly different. I would not trade my children, I love them dearly, just would not marry the man I chose to spend eternity with, which by the way eternity lasted for 8 years, divorced at 10 year anniversary
2007-01-24 09:34:46 · answer #5 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We have our problems sometimes, but not a day goes by that I don't feel like the luckiest person in the world to be married to him.
2007-01-24 05:50:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. I get the impression that he doesn't like me very much and is only still here for the kids. I should have left the first time I was hit.
2007-01-24 05:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by sandra j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i sure would all over again... I do not regret marrying him and i love him very much... No he is not perfect and can change but I am not perfect and i can better myself in areas as well... No one is perfect but that is ok lol! I love him for who is as and he loves me the same way!
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2007-01-24 05:50:09 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. On the one hand, yes, I'd marry him again cuz he takes care of me. On the other hand, he pisses me off so bad sometimes I want to clobber him over the head.
2007-01-24 05:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id marry him even quicker. I was insecure at first. If only I could accept then how true he always was,it wouldve saved alot of childish fights. He's one amazing man,my partner,my best friend.
2007-01-24 05:42:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋