2007-01-24 04:41:53 · 38 answers · asked by NYEVE43 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
geeze hoe how many married men have you been with?
home recker!
2007-01-24 04:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by samee 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Because they are using you. Why would you want a "married man" in the first place? If you keep going after married men then you are asking for trouble. They are lying to you because they don't ever intend on leaving their spouses for you and your giving them what they want . You need to move on to someone who isn't in any kind of relationship!
2007-01-24 04:50:39 · answer #2 · answered by Lace 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Easy. Because you let them. They get free sex with you AND the benefits of being married. It is a win-win situation for them to find a person like you. You are obviously being taken advantage of b y these clowns. A better question is this: why are you foolish enough to be with married men in the first place? Dump them and go find someone who is available. If this is something you do a lot, seek out professional medical help and therapy to help you fix your obviously damaged self-esteem so that you can work at creating healthy and loving relationships that make more sense. The next time you consider going out with someone who is married, ask yourself this: if they are willing to cheat on their wife, what kind of person are they really? You can do better! Good luck!
2007-01-24 04:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to consider the fact that they are married to someone else. They are programmed to lie if they are seeing you on the side. They are lying to their wives and they are lying to you. Even if he was to leave wife and marry you, what do you think would eventually happen to you? You will be the one being cheated on instead of being the other woman. Try to find a man that is unattached.
2007-01-27 20:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it is the standard line in a situation like this. 95% of men having affairs have no intentions of ever leaving their spouses! It seems like you've been around the block several times, you should know that!
2007-01-24 04:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away from potentially married men they lie to you the same as they lie to their spouses there are plenty of single men out there keep looking
2007-01-24 04:48:11 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
They can get what they want from you, without any form of commitment. In their minds, they can have their cake and eat it too. Why do you allow them to treat you like a toy? They obviously have no respect for their spouses, so why would they respect you? You have to dig deep because the problem lies deeper than the surface. It's time to be honest with yourself. This is wrong.
2007-01-24 04:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by lyndsie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
are you crazy? why do you lower your standards to this level? do you mean so little that you take another womens cast offs? why are you into sloppy seconds? they lie because their ashamed of you, you will always be the little piece of *** on the side. stay away from married men, you sound like a whore. grow up and grow some morals
2007-01-24 04:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by christine z 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because they want sex. Here's a secret maybe nobody ever shared with you: Married men NEVER leave their wife to be with the other woman.
2007-01-24 04:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because you allow yourself to be used by users.You apparently have some serious self-esteem and other issues.I can't imagine that you are happy with your life at all,though you may be telling yourself you are.You should seek professional help before you end up a lonely old woman.
2007-01-24 04:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by rae 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My guess is because you sleep with them after they tell a lie.
Probably they see you as the type of girl to accept a half baked lie to justify your consiounse while you both get the self gratifying sex both parties are out to get.
2007-01-24 04:53:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋