I want to write a letter 2 my best friend whos a guy. We have been close for years and we even hooked up a couple of times but we decided that it was best if we didnt date and just stayed friends and we were great and have been and we're both seeing other people. We are so close that he was the one by myside at my lil sister funeral last december.every time i would start to lose it he would take me in his arms & tell me that everything will work out for the best & ill be ok and that he would always be there but recently hes been distant.idk why. Now we only talk once or twice every 2 weeks & usually through text messaging. Ive asked hi if anything is wrong or why we dont talk nemore & he freaks out & days everything is fine.& when i ask why we arent close anymore he says he doesnt know what im talking about I want 2 write him a letter 2 let him know that im still here for him & maybe as a last attempt 2 try & fix things. but i dont know whats wrong so i dont know what to write to him.
2007-01-24 04:11:17 · 6 answers · asked by Dancer06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think u should write whatever u feel. if u release everything u feel inside and keep nothing, maybe he would admit whats wrong. because it seems theres really something wrong, otherwise u could be close like before. just tell him that u dont feel as u felt before and if he really cares about ur friendship, he should take what u say carefully and do something about it
2007-01-24 04:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by just boooooored 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know you nor the guy so not the real situation.. but of what i can tell from what u say is that is very possible that this guy started to fall in love with you.. keeping distance means either that he doesnt care about u or that he really is in love and tries not to confused things.. i doubt about the first one as u said he has always been there for you and was very close... another possibility is that he wants to spend time with his gf (if he has) and that he really didnt notice that hes keeping distance from you.. there could be many other explanations but i dont really know your situation.. these sound logical to me..
anyhow i hope the best :P
try talking to him rather than writing him a letter maybe.. the direct thing can tell a lot.. u will be able to see his reactions...
2007-01-24 12:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are in love with each other and don't want to admit it. Since you decided to only be friends he is dealing with it by withdrawing a little bit. Giving you space and taking some space. He's probably asking himself the same questions. What do you write. You write a note or text msg inviting him to lunch and you tell him how much he means to you.
2007-01-24 12:33:06 · answer #3 · answered by The Last Good Man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am actually confused as to why he is not your boyfriend. It seems like you 2 are well suited. He was there for you when you need a shoulder to cry on, you are so close....
2007-01-24 12:16:35 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try just making plans to meet up and have a personal one on one conversation. that seems to work better.
2007-01-24 12:17:15 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just write what you feel, exactly wat you wrote in the details- just state it more friendly like, and it will be a perfect note!!!!!!!
2007-01-24 12:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by Hershey's Kiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋