2007-01-24 04:03:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
you're too hot to share with anyone ...... if not for you ... I think I would
2007-01-24 04:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by æ GBD III æ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes we would. And we are swingers. :-)
Why? Because we are very secure in ourselves, in each other, and in our relationship. We know in our heart of hearts that we are "it" for each other and that no sexual organ on another person can change that, because our love for each other is far beyond just sex. The sex we have with each other is lust and love. It's soul sex. The sex we have with others is just lust.
Allowing my partner to be the person she is, this includes the sexual being she is, is very important to me. Her happiness is essential to my own. She was this person when we met, why would I want her to change that? Why would I want her to change "her"? It's just who she is that attracted me to her in the first place. So now I would want her to change because we are married? That would be like saying "hey, I love your leg, but now that we are married I want you to cut it off so that you can't walk away from me." It would be asking her to give-up a piece of herself that I was initially attracted to. How wrong is that?
Why would I prevent her from having every possible experience in life she can have? To protect myself? For fear that she will find "better"? I don't own her. She has chosen to spend her life with me, not her ex-husband or any of her ex-lovers. That alone tells me there is nobody "better" for her. I am it. And I feel the same way about her. That is the most comforting feeling you'll ever know. I don't own her. I don't control her. She's free to go if she wishes, and she doesn't.
She feels the same way about me, too.
We are committed to each other. Through thick and thin, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. And even that is questionable. I can always count on her to be there when I need her. She always has my back. She is my best friend and my companion on this road we call life.
Sex is sex. Love is love. Sex without love is merely healthy exercise.
2007-01-24 22:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely. We would and we have. Why? Because our relationship is sturdy enough to allow it...and it's a helluva lot of fun. All the fun of being single with none of the loneliness. You have your husband/wife to share your feelings and experiences with. We love it!
2007-01-24 20:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by intuition897 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes - variety is the spice of life.
2007-01-24 12:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never swap you out, lolli.
2007-01-25 11:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never. I love my husband.
2007-01-24 12:14:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jess_DH13 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Never--I am too emtional when it comes to sex
2007-01-24 12:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by eeyoree rocks2003 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nah, I prefer monogamy.
2007-01-24 12:57:13 · answer #8 · answered by BellaMars 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No...because it's a betrayal, of your partner and yourself.
2007-01-24 12:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋