okay dont you hate when they always say stupid things like hey blonde or burnette && big or small boods, and stuff that has to do with what we look like.
cant we juss be liked for who we are. is that so much to ask for.
2007-01-24 03:58:01 · 9 answers · asked by Miss Justinee X3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's G-I-R-L-S. It's G-U-Y-S. It's J-U-S-T.
Having said that, but not being a girl, what always strikes me is the girls who ask questions like this are very often the same girls who wear clothes that show off their body. It might be a low cut blouse. It might be hip huggers. It might be a short skirt. Maybe it's a lot of makeup. Whatever.
That doesn't excuse boys behavior, but before you attack the guys for looking instead of liking you for who are maybe look in a mirror to see what they are looking at and who they think you are. Don't advertise what you aren't selling.
2007-01-24 04:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck yeah guys are so silly, but you know it means they are paying attention to you and that's a plus!! Most guys don't know what to say so they state the obv. and want to kick themselves afterward. If it's a certain guy all the time tell him that he's not impressing you with stupid comments. If that doesn't work just go up to him and say what's up hotdog neck or how's it going big ears or big butt!! lol.
2007-01-24 10:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by Electra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to hang ot with a bunch of guys and there was always a couple of girks. so they would constanly be saying stuff liek that. i dont hang out with them much any more but when i dont they just talk to me like im normal and sometimes they still say something
2007-01-24 04:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi HollisterTeen, Wild guess on my part - you are probably younger than 14. That's a bit young to actually start dating, but it's certainly normal and healthy to start wondering about it. However, let's just think about it now for a while before you actually do anything, OK? You sound like a nice young lady... but seriously... you do need to work on your language skills and your ability to organize your thoughts in a coherent manner. No offense intended! Don't be afraid or embarrassed to talk to your parents or your family about issues like this as you are growing up. They know you, love you, and will certainly give you good advice. Your Dad just sounds like he doesn't want you to date... yet... probably because you are too young right now. It doesn't matter who this guy is that you are interested in. I don't blame your Dad, and it's good that he's keeping an eye on you. Well, until your Dad says "OK, now you can start dating"... at least here are a couple of things for you to keep in mind for the future. First off, your guy is also too young to be dating. He's nervous. In addition, young guys... and young girls,,, can be unpredictible, and change their minds very quickly... for no reason whatsoever. That can lead to hurt feelings and heartache. You and your guy might both agree that you like each other one day, and literally the next day either one of you could call it quits. You are still developing emotionally, HollisterTeen... and so is your Romeo. My advice is that 16 or 17 is a better age for you to start dating, but start off with group dating first. The chances of you and your first serious boyfriend still being together a year later next year are about 100-to-1 against you. When you are 16 or 17, try to find a sweet guy to date. Don't go for the hottest guys. Get to know him as a friend first, or if he is someone your friends or families already know. As a decent (hopefully) and trusting young lady, you need to be aware of a few of the potential hazards of dating. These hazards certainly apply to young people as well as adults. That's also why you need to not start kissing and making out too early with guys. Here are two major dating hazards for you to consider: 1. There are some guys out there (young and old) who will tell a nice girl that he loves her, just to see how far she will let him go with her body. There are guys out there who are ready and willing to use you and your body for their own selfish pleasure... and then leave... breaking your heart in the process, and possibly leaving you pregnant... or with an STD (a nasty disease in your private parts). Hopefully, you are old enough and mature enough when dating to recognize these losers, and say "No". 2. You could meet a genuinely nice and decent guy, and you both really do think that you love each other. After a few weeks or months, you both might be tempted to take off your clothes together... and perhaps have sex. That would be a good way to mess up both of your young lives. It's happened to a lot of nice girls and decent guys out there. Hopefully, you are old enough and mature enough to resist this type of temptation... and the temptation can be very strong. The best way to avoid getting into trouble from either hazard listed above is for you to never be alone with your guy... anywhere. Not his house, not your house, not a friend's house, not behind the school, or anywhere else. A responsible and awake adult should always be nearby. You should also never attend a party where no adults are present... ever. And don't ever try to date older guys who won't hesitate to ask you out. They won't hesitate to try to get your clothes off, either. Older guys won't be polite like your current Romeo... who is too nervous to even ask you out! Keep yourself out of trouble by thinking smart. Don't believe everything a guy tells you... watch him carefully, and evaluate whether or not his words are consistent with his actions. See if he respects you and your values. In summary, the best thing for you to do is wait until you are a little bit older and more mature (age 16 or 17) before you decide to start dating and kissing. You will be really happy when your are older, and you look back over your life... happy that you made the right decisions about finding, dating, and evaluating guys when you were young. Now, go and give your Dad a hug... tell him that you are glad he's watching out for you. Best wishes, - Charlie P.S. - Since you are so focused on dating, I'd also like to advise you to stay a virgin (i.e., no sex) until you are happily married to a kind and decent guy (age 23 or 24 would be good)... married to a guy who did not ask you to do inappropriate things... married to a guy who was willing to ask for your hand in marriage... and married to a guy who was willing to stand together with you in front of both of your families in church on your wedding day. That's pretty much the big picture that you should be looking at, HollisterTeen.
2016-05-24 04:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that pisses me off. I hate the boob comments. Maybe they should gain some weight and grow their own.
2007-01-24 04:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah you go girl!!!! I hate that!!!! I actually don't get that. i'm not one of the hotties. God Bless and Be Safe :)
2007-01-24 04:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by Yeah it's me................ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to much to ask for lol
2007-01-24 04:04:36 · answer #7 · answered by BlessedMommyof3.. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel ya girlie!!!
2007-01-24 04:22:34 · answer #8 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its annoying....they are just pervs.....lol
2007-01-24 04:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by ~*MiSS MiLLER*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋