I love my partner and I'm inlove with her, the sex is great we communicate well, I just got the hots for another girl
2007-01-24 03:46:40 · 15 answers · asked by corleone 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Quit being a cxckhound and put your efforts where it belongs...to your partner. If you need more lead for your pencil, at least have the decency to cut your partner loose and give her the opportunity to see for herself whether or not your worth sticking around for.
If you mess around...you will create so much baggage for yourself...but, you can tell people in the situation the same thing till your blue in the face and they won't listen. They just have to find out for themselves. They always regret it and wish they would have listened, but...it's the ol' Wet Paint sign syndrome. Being told isn't enough, they just gotta check it out for themselves.
2007-01-24 03:54:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love of your life should be the one you want really bad. We all have lustful feelings for others but the key is to not act upon those desires. A one-time fling may feel good at the moment but in the long run will only hurt your relationship. Love wins over lust.
2007-01-24 03:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Then you are not in love with her. Im sorry to put it like that, but i dont feel as if its possible to be so completely in love with one person and still have the audacity to have the "hots" for another woman. Now its human to find other people attractive/sexy or whatever. And thats okay. But when your thoughts cross the line to you having the hots & feeling as if you could cheat on your girl...that is not love.
2007-01-24 04:37:05 · answer #3 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 00:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by kobielnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just one of the many character building tests that all people in relationships face.
Don't cheat on your partner, you are better than that. If the need is really strong, break up with your current partner. Just remember, no-one likes a cheater...
2007-01-24 03:51:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should first think this over with yourself and see if you really want to risk your relationship for this other woman like is she worth it if my girl finds out? But on the other hand i would tell wifey and see if we could get this 3 some going onand that way we all happy.
2007-01-24 03:52:29 · answer #6 · answered by Luvlyestmami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is called immaturity. Another word is stupidity.
But, that's just me. I get the same vibes. I love my wonderful and perfect woman, whom I sought for 40 years, but, I still get a bit hot for the women who walk by that I'll never know. Get over it.
Keep all fantasies to yourself, and enjoy your dreams, it is all human nature.
2007-01-24 04:05:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Recognize that infatuation is not "love" and can be it's enemy. The Almighty gave us a great gift. Love sex and marriage. If we separate it, we destroy it. Is that tricky? only if you choose not to follow the rules.
2007-01-24 03:51:12 · answer #8 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not know that answer then the love of your life deserves a better person in their life!
2007-01-24 03:51:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go with your heart even at the risk of hurting someone. nothing in life is worth giving up your happiness for.
2007-01-24 05:56:25 · answer #10 · answered by ohellyesidid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋