i have bf but i am thinkin i am bi he brought the idea up to have a 3 some awsome right?? I was all down for it especially since i am more interested in girls i have never been with a female. it was a great idea than we was talkin bout it 1 day he changes his mind cause he said thats all i can talk about. this pisses me off!! he knows that i am very attracted to females i think i am bi. owell if i am the more for me. how do i go abouts discussing this or even doing this. with or without him. he is scared that he will find me in bed with a female and will lose me to her.. LOL i know its funny insecure i can say. what do i do help.. and also in one line in des moines iowa???
2007-01-24 03:39:40 · 4 answers · asked by lovergirl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I was watching MASH reruns recently. There was this scene where Hawkeye was trying to make time with a very liberated Swedish doctor who was visiting. He had some trouble with her and asked, "When you dance, who leads?"
I don't think your man is all that insecure, you have made your relationship insecure with your preoccupation. Tell him you are open to it, maybe even make suggestions occassionally of scenarios or potential partners, but don't push it.
Think of it this way, would YOU want the threesome if he got another guy to do you? Would YOU want a threesome if you got another girl who was interested in him but not you? How open are you really? If you are selling it like he isn't enough, you are selling the wrong thing for him to buy. But if the new partner was to share and you could permit someone else to spend time on him instead of you, would you still sell it?
2007-01-24 06:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are more interested in girls, then why are you bogged down in a relationship with a guy? bisexuality is much more than just threesomes.. if your only interest in girls is in a threesome format, i don't necessarily think you are bi. just sounds like you are a little wild and are looking for a way to spice up your love life with your man.
but yes, i can totally see him feeling insecure if all you ever talk about is wanting to have sex with a girl.
i think you really need to think seriously about your relationship with this guy, and specifically, how important he means to you.
if you'd be more comfortable dating, sleeping with, and loving another woman, it might be best to break up with him so you can both move on and find happiness...
2007-01-24 06:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should more afriad of losing him since he is a guy. anyway you how much he loves you (that he want you AND ONLY YOU) and does want to lose you. when most guys hear that their gf wants a 3 thing they have a big smile on thier face and start getting all excited. be greatful that you have him or else she will. trust me.
2007-01-24 06:05:30 · answer #3 · answered by phatso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just go do it with a girl if u want too...or bring a girl home for him, most guys would never turn that down..hahaha
2007-01-24 05:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by ceecee800 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋