Okay my best friend has this huge crush on one of my best guy friends. My guy friend and I always have a good time and lots of laughs and my friend thinks that I like him. I really have no love interest for him, besides, my friend that's a girl knows that I like someone else. She has been rude to me all week. What should I do? I don't want to compromise either friendship.
2007-01-24 03:26:34 · 11 answers · asked by allllison. (: 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her exactly what you told us.
Remind her that you are a loyal friend and wouldn't stop hanging out with her because of some boy - just like you won't stop hanging around your guy friend because of some girl (her!)
Don't be too harsh on her...just remember that crushing hard makes us all just a little crazy!
If she's a good friend, she'll get over it and you guys will laugh about in a year.
2007-01-24 03:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well tell her you don't like him at all. Also comment that you will TRY not Promise to get info about your guy friend. Who he likes what he likes in a girl blah blah.Mention do you think ____ is pretty? random questions about girls in your school and eventually mention you friend.. I f that doesn't work, at at least you tried and you have no obligation to be a matchmaker. If she really likes That guy, she should start to talk to him more often..You could all hang out and you purposely leave them a,one for a while so they can talk or whatever. Hey you don't have to do this but If you wanna help you friend, go ahead. Besides she should know better if she is your best friend, she has no right to be rude to you. Maybe shes just jealous because you get along with him and she likes him badly..She needs to chill and not make a fuss over a guy. Friendship comes first.
2007-01-24 03:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i TOTALLY know how u feel! the same thing happened to me and my former best friend..but my story was way different! anyways..i had a best guy friend and well my "best friend" liked him..but she also knew that i liked another guy and i guess she decided to ignore the fact that i was totally crushing over someone else that she just began to be mean to me.. so what i started doing was that i started talking to my crush more often and we just started hanging out more and i would just talk about my crush so much when i was around her and well that pretty much worked because she started noticing that of course i didn't like "her man" or "crush" u know so i hope that helps a bit so my advise is just start talking and flirting with other guys so friend can notice that you r so not into "her man"! laterz!
2007-01-24 03:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by love isn't everything! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guy that likes you that you don't want to ruin your friendship and you just want to be friends. Tell your girl friend that you don't like him and that you are not interested in him what so ever.
2007-01-24 03:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to you girlfriend and explain to her that you and you guy friend are exclusively just friends and that you have no love interest for him she should get the point and go back to normal..... if she doesn't then don't stop talking to your guy Friend just because she cant believe you if she decides to not be your friend then you don't need her as a friend
2007-01-24 03:32:59 · answer #5 · answered by Just ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rude to you? Sounds to me like she compromised the friendship. Who needs enemies.
2007-01-24 03:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by LuckyChucky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly what you just told us. That you have no love interest in him. Maybe making a move towards hooking them up will show that you're not interested. Go on a double date and you bring your own date.
2007-01-24 04:45:53 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be in such position at all..
Both friendships are important...
BUT IF Your friend has been jealous and not very nice to you.. Well... maybe she is not such a good friend after all..
2007-01-24 03:34:48 · answer #8 · answered by Maxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... I'd just kind of blend in with the scenery on this one and wait it out...
2007-01-24 03:30:18 · answer #9 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your frined that your not intersted in him an tht she should jus tgo for it ! good luck x
2007-01-24 03:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by xvougeprincessx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋