i met a girl few months back in my office.within 1 week she became close to me and one day i asked her for a kiss which she did.after that we came closer and closer. she wants to marry me.I dont think there is anything bad about her that i should not marry her.she is well educated,nice and mature.we never had any physical reationship ever but often whenever we met we indulged physically.i discussed it with my brother.he doubts how could she so easily give me the kiss when i asked her at the first instance.he doubts her character but i dont feel she is wrong.he doesnt like me to marry her.
>what should i do?
>is my brother right though i dont believe him?
>I even dont know if i love her or not but i care for her a lot
2007-01-24 03:26:32 · 13 answers · asked by max m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
whose gotta marry you or your brother? just decide whether u love her or not. may be she gave in to you bcoz she liked and loved u since the first time she saw you. had she been characterless she would had u in bed by now. i think she loves you. rest is ure decision dude. god bless u with the right thought.
2007-01-24 05:51:57 · answer #1 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is what me and my boyfriend have done-- we were not dating very long and he told me he wanted to marry me.. i told him i loved the idea but i thought that we should wait a little while and he understood taht and said that was good enough for him. Maybe if you take the same approach with her it will be ok. One thing i realized though is that the dating for a few years and then being engaged a year thing that everyone does is just traditional. So many people may not understand you point of view but there is no set time on when someone should get married.
2007-01-24 11:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think so u r right in marrying her...bcos marriage is a relation u vcant take the decisions so hastily...i think a week is a very short time to anyone ot undertand one's feelings completely...
i want u to understand her more...
u might b confident enogh that she s gud but..that could be ur infactuation on her..thats driving u all the way...
so make up ur mind...
nd take some more time...to understand her..nd am sure if she s gud then u ll surely end up in marrying her...
dont be in a hurry to marry her...first understand her...PERFECTLY...
i hope u got the answer..
ALL THE BEST....
may u get a perfect wife...
2007-01-24 11:43:31 · answer #3 · answered by ROBUSTMAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her only if you feel she is suitable for you. Compatibility is very impotant in any marriage. Also do you really love each other? Satisfy yourselves that it is indeed love and not just fascination or lust.
Although in our society a girl kissing a man after 1 week of introduction is somewhat incongruous, I think it is a very natural expression of fondness. That way the girl is not wrong. She appears to be uninhibited in her natural expressions.
2007-01-24 11:45:15 · answer #4 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow it down! You said yourself that you're not sure if you even love her. Give it time and get to know her better. A word of caution- Be wary of anyone who talks of marriage too soon. It's a long-term deal, I know-I've been married 20 years. It's not something to be rushed into.
2007-01-24 11:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is blind but then who cares, marry her if she is the right one for you.
You will enjoy many kisses from a wonderful woman.
2007-01-24 11:29:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.It's possible that she's just impressed with you.
2,Also it's possible that she's just in true love with you.
I think you need to give it some time while you can test her as well as your feelings towards the relationship,
So give it time buddy.Keep 'Quick Descision'
attitude aside,best luck.
2007-01-24 13:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by david 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure that you love her..... don't marry her. Your brother only knows what you have told him, you know her better than he does. Take it slow and easy, continue to see her and see if love comes.
2007-01-24 11:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by tecklebuggg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will tell the truth of it all and most likely expose the answers to your questions.. Don't rush it..
2007-01-24 11:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by Bill G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting into marriage with a doubt and not being sure of ur love for her will only bring disaster.......
so take ur time and think well.........take the advice of ur well wishers but always remember let the final decision be urs........
2007-01-24 12:56:18 · answer #10 · answered by smile2u2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋