I have never had any luck with making female friends-you know just to hang out with, shop, share secrets-whatever, the thing is, I need a friend, a woman to talk to, men have always been my priority and if I do have a friend, she either talks about me behind my back or ends up being jealous of me, what am I doing wrong.
2007-01-24 03:24:00 · 16 answers · asked by Tiny little hot one 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well join the club. i never had any either. i am now 46 i only made one real close friend in my life and she is 71. we have been friends now for 12 years. i had friends when i was younger and they got jealous of me for things i didnt do, like their husband or boyfriends talked to me too much or they were bigger built than me just things like that and i never understood, i wanted a friend so bad but, they didnt want me. i am happy i found and older friend she doesnt judge me or isnt concerned if her husband tallked to me. i love her so much for being my friend. maybe you can find a best friend in an older person too. they are so kind.
2007-01-24 03:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by crystal b 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you're doing wrong is you've got your priorities straight LOL.
But jokes apart, having men your priority isn't a bad thing. Unless it translates to having little priority for the women friends in your life. You actually can and should balance that well. Its about you making a deliberate effort to pick a time and person and go spend time with her - shopping, eating, watching a movie, or anything fun - and just "un-prioritize" men while you're with her. That's probably all it takes.
2007-01-24 11:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm pretty much the same!
Guys are not worried about what each other are wearing or what they look like, whereas woman stare and harshly compare themselves to their peers, then go home and worry and fret about it or worse get jelous.
I guess the only way to make friends with females is to find girls who are happy and confident in themselves who won't be envyous of you or backstab you.
Try the internet as people are more open on the net. Look for people in your area, who you can meet for a drink.
Just some suggestions - don't know if they'll help.
L
2007-01-24 11:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by leigh M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm kind of like you before, I don't have close female friends and sometimes I feel left out. Kind of like not having a partner you always wonder what it feels like. But I got lucky, now I have a female friend to hang out with. When she first called me I was very reluctant to go out with her because I'm used to being alone but she's very persistent so I always end up saying yes and most of the times I enjoy it. So just wait or if you met someone you'd like to hang out with, ask them. If they say no they're probably not the right one. Keep on looking. Good luck!
2007-01-24 11:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl and don't really mind hanging around with boys of my age unfortunately most of then are so rude and disrespectful why I'm i telling you this? because i just wanted to tell that when the right time comes you'll find a proper and thoughtful friend. not every girl out there is nice and considerate some of them are really nasty and ugly. so hang in there and i hope you find a NICE female.
2007-01-24 12:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing females are just jealous, spiteful, mean creatures like that. I have a few female friends but i keep them at a distant. I connect better with males. Women dont like to see other women happy. Especially in a relationship. They say they wish u the best but they dont, they just want u to fall so that u can have someone to cry for help. They hope u cry for their help. Women love drama. I dunno why but they do. I say when u get a female friend keep em at a distance. Its always good to have someone to talk to.
2007-01-24 11:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by gurllucky7 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's not what you are doing wrong. Maybe you are just looking in the wrong place. A true friend won't do all that to you. You will find a friend. Just be patient and don't try to be too nice.
2007-01-24 11:28:33 · answer #7 · answered by precious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem. Find a girl who likes to hang out with the guys too. My best friend and I are really close and we love hanging out with guys. Hope this helps. =]
2007-01-24 11:28:24 · answer #8 · answered by allllison. (: 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take a good look at yourself,see what you as a person have to offer someone.Most women talk stuff behind each others backs,don't put yourself in the position for anyone to say anything but good things
2007-01-24 11:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by shadow 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Most of my friends are guys too. I think its just cause iunno some girls are really hard to trust. You shouldnt bum yourself overit though hopefully just be open with people and they should accept you for who you are! anyone who ever puts you down isnt a friend. good luck! :)
2007-01-24 12:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by jjjj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋