im lesb ian,and im the girl and my girlfriend is the boy,what to do to please her at night exept using toys
2007-01-24 03:22:58 · 10 answers · asked by love 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You dont need the toys. Massage every and I mean every inch of her body with your hands, then fingertips, then your mouth. Dont be afraid to use your fingers at the same time as your mouth and tongue. Its very important to use your ENTIRE MOUTH this will emit the most pleasure. I'm the guy in my lesbian relationship and that coupled with a little pillow talk, depending on the mood as to the dirtiness level drives me crazy
2007-01-24 03:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by corleone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I'm the girl and my girlfriend is the boy?" No, my dear, you are both girls, as Mother Nature made you. Celebrate that fact, and don't waste your time trying to imitate men. Or more specifically, if you feel it, you become it, so your girlfriend had better be sure she really would rather be a man if you are going to play out those roles. (Not that I would recommend surgery.)
Short of a sex change operation, remember that whatever either of you can enjoy alone, you can enjoy sharing with your friend. You have the same physical parts and know something of what they feel like. Go with it, and ask "Is that nice? Do you like that?" whenever you doubt. She, for her part, must be honest with you, as you are with her, about what feels good, what does not, and what makes you mentally uncomfortable, even if there's no physical discomfort.
The idea is to share pleasure, not some power trip.
2007-01-24 03:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by auntb93again 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing as in a hetero experience--you try to fully express appreciation for the affection shown you. When I made love to my wife this morning, her affectionate participation during and appreciation after were almost as good as what I was enjoying. If as in a dance, your girlfriend leads, go and enjoy and let her know you enjoy (assuming you do) and that will or should certainly please her. In case I suspect there will be a lot of mirroring expected, if she touches you a certain way, she might expect you to reciprocate in a similar way. Otherwise, she might simply get a thrill out of giving you a thrill, which is good too.
2007-01-24 07:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because one is more the "stud" type then a fem doesn't mean that she wont like what you like. . . do the same things. Thats whats so great about being with another woman, you know what feels good to you, so do it to her, naturally you will find out what she enjoys! Take her to one of those stores, like Prescilla's, or DeJaVu.... There are all kinds of things in there... Toys and some intertesting IDEAS... Be Creative! try and figure out how many licks it takes to get to the center of the tootsie pop . ~*wink*~
2007-01-24 03:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_treat101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gay, and still to this day I wonder why some gay people practically prefer the image and characteristics of the opposite sex. But anyways, do everything possible that you can do.....Or just ask her...talking about sexual pleasures is normal, plus you won't have to worry about her cheating on you to get what she really wants...But the biggest thing of all, is be there for here at night, after all she still is a woman.
2007-01-27 22:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by sorrowlaughed25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what she likes & doesnt like. You should have already had this convo with her! Its the same way in my relatnshp. Im more feminine and she's a tomboy so some things just wont fly with her. She doesnt want toys used on her and she doesnt like ANYthing inside of her. But she does like to receive um.....oral pleasure & likes to have her clit manually stimulated (sorry!!! im trying to keep my answer as clean as possible!) And she usually is the more dominant one sexually but it realy turns her on when i get a little more aggressive from time 2 time.
2007-01-24 03:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her be in control and get on top of you, ride you pretty much be in charge of the sex. Or do the opposite and you take charge and ride her and kiss her all over.. Go down on her if she likes that but most likely not if she is more the guy role. Also ask her what she likes, what turns her on ect! Communication helps
2007-01-24 03:30:13 · answer #7 · answered by Erin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even the butch ones like to be dominated.
2007-01-24 03:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play with her pen!$. if she does not have one shes not a boy.
2007-01-24 05:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by phatso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lick her vagina just like a penis.Meliha says...dont be a bobblehead...Amra says...lick it before you stick it...Sam says...eoww thats gross
2007-01-24 03:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by bigyonk_07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋