Those are the most painful regrets: I just didn't stop to notice another's need. I don't ever think of the things that I didn't do for myself...but I wonder how much difference I could have made for another.
I try to keep my eyes open, but life comes with a set of blinders sometimes.
2007-01-24 03:33:23
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answered by Maddog Salamander 5
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I think we all do at some point in our lives. We cannot change the past, we can only move forward. If this person or persons are still in your life, you can go to them and share your feelings with them. Tell them how you wish you could change the circumstances. I don't know the details here, where your circumstances are with this person or persons, so it it hard to answer. Sometimes it is just best to move on. I wish I could give you the right answer. I am a christian, so I would say pray about it. God bless you. There are a lot of things I wish I could change, in caring more for some people in my life. It is too late in my circumsatnce, for the main person who comes to my mind is my mother.There was a lot of anemosity. I have found a lot of peace through my faith. I know she loved me and I her, it was a very hard relationship. I feel she is at peace now and would want the same for me. Faith, growing in the word of God has helped me immensly. We all fall short at times, we are not perfect. We also have to forgive ourselves, for our own mistakes. God bless you.
2007-01-24 11:32:21
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answered by Godlover 3
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I can see times when I placed an unworthy boyfriend before myself and I probably should have cared more for myself then. Other than that, no, I tend to be very caring for others. I have a few business relationships that I could have provided better follow up after. In general, with friends and family, I trust my heart so I always follow it and it has never lead me into regret. Live and learn.
2007-01-24 11:13:20
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answered by Sleek 7
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I tend to spend longer than a moment glancing into the past. I usually lie awake at night thinking about my past going...oh lord, I'm so going to hell...cause there is a rather large list of people I know I shoulda cared for more.
2007-01-24 11:11:59
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answered by gotalife 7
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Yes my grandmother. She lived in another state and I always found a reason to be too busy to go visit once I started my business. I miss her terribly because she made my childhood great. I still talk to her sometimes even though she has passed on. That may seem weird but she is forever in my heart and thoughts.
2007-01-24 11:14:34
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answered by firefly 5
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As time passed by I have come to realize that I have cared too much for some people than I shouldn't have and did not care enough for people I should have. I have not acted on it, but I hope I learned my lesson.
2007-01-24 11:11:06
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answered by Emery 6
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Yes
2007-01-24 11:14:51
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answered by Rachel 7
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Yes... Some times I will start thinking of my sibblings about their studies even I have enough knowledge to bring them up to a higher level in their studies, I missed to be strict in certain thing at times.If I would have been strict in those things thye would be acheived those things that I have expect from them. But I am sure that I will do it from right now and will try my level best to bring them up and to coach them in a best wasy.
2007-01-24 11:39:03
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answered by rani v 2
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i've looked back and noticed all the mistakes i made just for one guy. I would have treated and cared for my firends much more than i did. Note: don't turn your back on your friends for someone who you think is right for you, because in the end if it doesn't work out, then you will have no one.
2007-01-24 11:11:30
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answered by Emma Chica 3
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Yes, all the time. And when I think of that person, I call them up to make sure everything is okay. Life is too short to forget about the people we love.
2007-01-24 11:13:09
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answered by Anonymous
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