Ok, so I've been playing the single game for about a year now and all this time I have had no problems in that area. Well I recently settled down and found a girl that I really really like. We had sex for the first time this weekend and I couldn't finish. I gave it another shot to make sure it wasn't a fluke, but that attempt also ended in failure. Both times we were going at it for what seemed like forever. She claimed that she had hers mulitple times, but me, even once. What's up with that?
2007-01-24 02:46:28 · 5 answers · asked by Perry 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sometimes if I go too long for her sake, I won't finish either... try changing positions... maybe you are not getting enough stimulation in the position you are using.
2007-01-24 05:57:53 · answer #1 · answered by Aaron H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you perform solo and everything is ok, then i think you should abstain for a period of 5-7 days prior to your next partnered encounter. if you're not successful at solo power, you might want to see a urologist to have everything checked out. you fail to mention whether or not your stay potent and just can't reach the finish line, or does your BUDDY deflate and consequently, you lose the senstivity in your Manhood.
there is help available. don't be embarrassed. your urologist has heard and seen everything. most of it was from me. however, everything is right on track now, thanks to medical wonders.
good luck!
here's an interesting tidbit:
each year in the U.S.:
9 million men seek help for ED
9 million men refuse to seek help
9 million men pretend there isn't a problem
your ownership of the problem will play in your favor.
2007-01-24 14:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok dude somethings got to be wrong for sure,something must be turning you off.Do you start off with foulplay?sometimes fooling around lot,s turns into desire until you can no more and just got to have it.Also add sex toys to make it more exciting,sex movies will get you going,try it see if i,m wrong.good luck bro.
2007-01-24 12:05:14 · answer #3 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ur jus not into it as mentally as she is. try focusing on the pleasure of it, not the mechanics. foreplay wouldnt hurt. try pleasuring each other that way first and see how that goes or experiment with or without her to see what you find best turns you on
2007-01-24 13:38:35 · answer #4 · answered by xiv6632 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she must be really ugly
2007-01-24 12:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋