everything has been goin wrong in my life, from relationships to my job to my once strong faith in God
2007-01-24 02:46:25 · 11 answers · asked by jihgf_edcba 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sometimes that happens but you just have to realize that without bad, there could also be not good, both sides of the coin. It may help to sit down and write a list of the good things in life and concentrate on the instead of the bad. mke sure that you are taking a good daily vitamin since good health can also affect energy levels and therefore relationship problems and job as well.
Break your problems down and tackle them one at a time, starting with your faith. God provides the tools but we have to use them. if your job is causing problems consider a change of job. Try finding friends rather than relationships and one of those will turn into a relationship. Too often to worry about not being in a relationship can lead to settling too easily for anyone and therefor the relationship can only fail.
the more the obstacles in your path, the stronger you wil be when you get past them. remember the girl who has homeless and slept in the bathroooms of public restrooms and yet eventuallly graduated from Harvard with a law degree, as seen in the movie "homeless to Harvard"
Lately, remember that there will always be some people cheering you on, even if you haven't met them yet or you simply say hello in passing, as we are doing at this moment! Good luck to you!!
2007-01-24 03:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by Al B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny I'm right there with you. I'm not sure if I've actually coped with it, but I just try to take one day at a time. When you hit rock bottem theres no where else to go but up. Life may sux now but darlin' you'll get another job, find some one else, and when you do oyu'll be thanking god. Just have patience hunny things will work out for you eventually.
2007-01-24 02:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Beautiful_nightmare 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate when people tell me this but it works: try exercising, it increases endorphines which elevates your mood. You sound very depressed. You must try and associate with friends and get out of the house as much as possible. I know this sounds entirely oversimplified, but I have always had a problem with thoughts like yours. I'm telling you that small steps like these work. Even when you don't want to go out, you must force yourself. Life is only meaningless if you sucuumb to that mindset. Supporting yourself with friends and family, and ultimately love, is not meaningless.
2007-01-24 02:52:08 · answer #3 · answered by Sugarfree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I think anyone who questions his faith should go mingle in other
places like prisons, hospitals or morgues. That should be a wake up call.
God gave you life, the least you could do is show you appreciated it.
Start with your job; Get there...on time, and put in a days work. Be friendly
to your co-workers.
Enjoy a movie, go bowling, fishing.... do something interesting and do it
with someone else.
Valentines day is near, put together a fruit basket and share it at work.
Call your Mom and or Dad. When was the last time they heard from you?
2007-01-24 03:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our son has been missing since Nov 21. The only way for us to cope is to move closer to our faith. Plus we keep company with people who are caring and supportive. It's amazing what you can do with help from friends. Sometimes when things go wrong friends seem to pull away, then it is really hard.
2007-01-24 02:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by doktordbel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, often..it's a hard concept to get over. It sounds as if you are questioning a lot of things that used to be comfortable for you. This is normal. Just try to not be alone and dwell on all the bad things..stay busy, get out, be with friends and family and you will get through it. You could try a counselor as well, maybe some medication just to get you through the hard time.
2007-01-24 02:54:58 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I see a person suffering, or when I suffer I feel that Life is meaningless. I still feel it many times, not because I hate life, actually I love life but I feel that if God is having everything then why did he create life and give suffering to many people?
2016-05-24 04:12:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes.
think about the good times you may have had. think about the people who do love you. go for walks. read a funny book. go to your therapist. cry a little. drink a little wine. eat a little cake.
try to enjoy the things that are good. there are a few good ones out there. just don't kill yourself doing it!
2007-01-24 02:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by wackadoo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called life.. remember theres a blessing in your storm.. know that it will get better.. remember that for every obstacle you meet theres something greater on the other side... its hard to believe... when everything is wrong... but keep your eyes on him.. he said " I'll never leave you nor forsake, i wont leave you comfortless.. test him on his words... he said my words will not return unto me void.. prove him... breathe and ask God...let go adn Let god..
hope this helps...
2007-01-24 03:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by CHELAKIKI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I feel like that I read my "thoughts are things" book by ernest holmes. It's a pretty short book, but I love it..
2007-01-24 02:51:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋