Ive known this friend quite closely for over a year (i have a b/f so this is purely platonic). After having quite a serious argument and not talking for about 2 months, i started talking to him again to see what happens, and this is what he said to me:
He kept saying that "a sequence of events had already begun which is out of his control, but he is doing his best to stop it, because if it happens, i will not be grateful"
and then i said that i didnt want to talk to him (out of anger) and he replied "when the sequence of events has reached its climax, thats the last thing you would want to do"
So, what could this mean?
It sounded like a threat to me, but i confronted him and he kept saying it was not a threat at all - but he hesitates to say what he meant by saying things like "forget it" or "doesnt matter". And he doesnt seem like the type to threat at all - i think he was holding back something because he said "its best that you dont know" - and then i just left it.
2007-01-24 02:43:41 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he probably fancies you and those weird cryptic messages aren't really a good way for him to be showing it. i'd ask him what's going on if i were you, he's probably afraid to say anything as you have a boyfriend
2007-01-24 07:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by murnip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In part, I think the answer to what he's talking about is in how he sees his relationship with you.
I also suspect that he is 'delusional,' imagining things that venture into the 'conspiracy' theory area of life.
If a 'sequence of things have begun that are out of his control,' then...! So what? He has no control over the weather or the way general life unfolds for us (wherein we are each effected by events that have nothing to do with us on a personal basis).... And it all sounds so 'mysterious' and potentially 'threatening,' but it's added to by him saying 'that it's out of his control.'
In many respects, I think he is trying to manipulate you and your feelings by making the statement and then seeming to withdraw ~ 'forget i said it' ~ which is plainly impossible, thus creating more layers to this childlike act of stupidity.
He may not be the 'type to threaten,' but in his playacting he has already done so ...sewing seeds in your mind.
It would be best that you simply have nothing more to do with him and his child-like attempts at manipulation: These may well be a series of unconsciously setup games he plays in order to establish some sort of 'Control' within a relationship that he sees purely from his own perspective.
For your peace of mind, avoid him.
Sash.
2007-01-24 03:18:20 · answer #2 · answered by sashtou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This so-called friend of yours needs to grow up and stop watching way too much T.V. What he said to you IS NOT a threat and therefore, you shouldn't take it wayt too seriously. He didn't explain himself to you and I honestly that it would be best for you to leave him alone. Find new friends who are not weird and don't be bothered by him anymore. I wouldn't even waste my time trying to figure out what he meant anyway. Just move on girl. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-24 03:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by Lady S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to grow up! he has been watching too many movies. Tell him that you went to the supermarket and they were all out of psychic helmets therefore can he explain what the hell he is talking about.
Sounds to me like he knows something about your boyfriend (are you sure your boyfriend is not cheating) or he wants you to think that he does. he is implying that you will want him as a friend should this happen.
2007-01-24 02:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get the law to deal with this one...or at the very least get some advice from them on this. This is vile and intimidating.....he is no friend, if he wants to subject you to fear like this. get the police to pay him a visit, just so that it is on record, and they may also be able to get the truth from him about this. At least by doig this and having it on record, if something happens, they know who to call on.....him.
having said all of the above, he is probably scorned, and just wants to get his own back on you. Whatever he may be doing, this is a dangerous game to play.
2007-01-24 02:59:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really your friend he wouldn't be acting in this threatening manner. He's either a drama queen or quite a dangerous and untrustworthy person, so I wouldn't have anything to do with him.
2007-01-24 02:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by Hannah L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could he have said something to someone about you or your b/f behind your back. I'd ask around and see. Then I'd give him a very wide berth.
2007-01-24 03:51:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to either grow up and tell you whats going on or to eff right off and not get in touch again
Thats what I would do!
2007-01-24 02:59:05 · answer #8 · answered by Georgie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he loves u, and he thinks that u wont feel the same way if he tells u so hes tryin 2get over it. . .
2007-01-24 02:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Wayne J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should be careful, he probably hired a hitman... then changed his mind, but is unable to cancel....
2007-01-24 02:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋